Geez, I really hate trying to make assumptions about people I don't know, but it sounds like she's allready left sweetie....at least mentally.

I know a guy who's very much like her in the sense that he tells these out landish lies ALL THE TIME, and anyone who knows him, can vouch for this... None of us can figure out WHY he does it we've just accepted it and deal with it on a lie-by-lie basis anymore.

For instance: I went to North Carolina with him and my friend one weekend to the casino there.....okay I took 50$ cash with me........I spent 5$ of that money, and came home with 185$........(The truth) Okay I'm in my yard one night (pulling weeds out of my flowers) And I hear him telling another friend of ours who pulled up that I went and I put 20$ in one machine and won 5 THOUSAND dollars on my first try!!!! (The LIE) Seems harmless enough I guess it's just very irritating always wondering if he's telling the truth or a lie!

However, she's not just telling a lie she's living ONE, she's given everyone the impression that she's going to school when she's not, she's giving you the impression she's seeking employment which you found out she is not, she's setting in the park in very bad weather conditions???

My suggestion is if you don't want to know the truth keep asking her questions........and if you really want to know what's going on....shut up and listen........and I'm not being a smart ass....honest, but you find out alot more when you stop asking and start watching.

It is just my humble opinion that she's not just telling a few white lies, she has progressed from lying to full blown deception. I hope you two work things out.....good luck to you...