i think we know just what you mean, but the best way to give encouragment is to use constructive critisism (which most people do anyway!)

if someone looks "good" thats a relative term! most guys on here look good compared to say the average couch potatoe with his gut hanging over his pants! so what if their pecs are not up to scratch with ronnie coleman!

i feel its much better to get positive remarks which make you feel good about yourself and encourage you to work harder. constructive critisism works just fine, and most of the members here use it to its full advantage.