My wife is a C**T

[Pale Horse]

clhp, always feel free to shout out here for help, I do as well as many others, as you say it really can help when you need some solid advice. One thing about this board is that it blows away the musclehead myth that we are all idiots. Some of the sharpest most intelligent bros I know anywhere are on this board, it is a gift of God for me and I don't say that lightly.

[clhp20]

clhp, always feel free to shout out here for help, I do as well as many others, as you say it really can help when you need some solid advice. One thing about this board is that it blows away the musclehead myth that we are all idiots. Some of the sharpest most intelligent bros I know anywhere are on this board, it is a gift of God for me and I don't say that lightly.

AMEN brotha

[STONES2]

I could go on forever about this subject an would love every minute of it,

I am one of those so called white knuckling dry drunks that many (not all) AA faniticals find pleasure in telling me how I am going to fail and have been now failing for almost twenty years because I don't go to aa meetings and do the 12 step program.

Even though I have either seen most of them go back to drinking (relapsing) or doping more than once.

My suggegestion is simply this, how bad do want something and how hard are you going to work for it , If you love your wife and children and of course your self then stop. If you are just a whining little imature ass as was I when I stopped it will seem impossible,

It is our job as men to lead our familys out of destruction, the events that you are struggling with are what the rest of the world has dealt with, with out drugs and alcohol.

If I seem uncompassionat It is because I belive truth is far more important to us to grow.

May God give you the strength to perserver.

Twostones

[Benches505]

AMEN brotha

He hasn't posted for well over a month. Hope all is going well with you Bro!

[jerryboy]

Hey bro, When my first wife did that to me she was getting her freak on with another dude. you might want to do your home work and check up on her. women are smart so you have to be one step ahead. good luck. BUG YOUR PHONE. GET CELL PHONE RECORDS. Get in good with her girl friends maybe they will talk. If you really want answers CRY infront of her girl friend when your wife is not around of course. Don't let her play you for a fool. What hurts the most is everyone in town knows what she is doing except you.

[znak]

If you really want answers CRY infront of her girl friend. Don't let her play you for a fool. What hurts the most is everyone in town knows what she is doing except you.

This is priceless! Cry in front of your wife's girl friend!!! What a f*cking wuss, no wonder she dumped your a$$.

This is really some funny sh*t. You can't be serious. If you were crying in front of her girl friends, the whole town already knows you are a wuss and no wonder they are boning your broad.

What am I missing here???????

[soccer#3]

Hey bro, When my first wife did that to me she was getting her freak on with another dude.

Soon as i read this, this was the first thing that came to my mind.

I dunno ur wife but she might be gettin it from someone else, like my screen name on msn says "if u aint hittin it someone else is".

Everybody talkin about how guys cheat, this and that. But no, bitches are 10 times worse. Cuz for them its easier to get wit someone.

Be prepared for the worse, thats all im sayin.

One more thing, sorry to hear that jerryboy.

Peace

[Grappler13]

You are on the path to recovery but your wife is not there yet. Wives have long memories and are wired dirrefently. Use this time as a reflective time to see how you can constructively deal with her control methods. I am guessing that you were not the most reliable guy 60 days ago. Be patient and respect her for putting up with you. You'll know when the time to say "Look, I've changed and been so for x amounts of months now and am not the ame alcoholic you were married to so cut me some slack!" Just not yet. We're here for you bro.