HELP! My wife is not supportive...

[lavaman]

My wife is starting to bitch about the costs of my hgh/test/winny cycle and I'm on my sixth week, and seeing awesome results but she's supportive on me spending the 500-1000 a month on gear. I'm in between jobs and receving unemployment and I physically and health wise can not afford to get off on cycle because I've made so much progress and I can't go back to my old unhealthy out of shape self.

Anyone got advice on dealing with your significant others while on cycle..
My anger is off the top and I'm trying to be nice with her so she can be understanding to my cause, but tonight I've had it up to here!...

[AnaBolic_hOsS]

lavaman,

I would focus on getting back on my feet before aas. She is just worried bro, just calm her down. I have never experience this, due to the fact i'm not married.

good luck

[superstretch74]

Get a job

[lavaman]

Well it's been two weeks and I've been looking for a job in my field but unfortuantely I'm over qualified and the technology field is so screwed up right now that alot of companies are only hiring for contract only .. not perm.

[lavaman]

P.S. I need the AAS for HRT therapy

[Kristopher22]

Gotta agree with stretch. Spending $500 - 1000 / mos on gear while unemployed.... And angry?? You are going to be single soon my son. I think she has the right to be a bitch!

[Tazwell]

lava man
IMHO yea your spending alot on juice, and yea your wife should be mad.. but with your HR therapy condition this might be a time when you really need that test...
i just graduated from college, and looking for a decent paycheck sucks... but being on juice makes it soooo much easier to know what i want to do, and get it ( it's just that confidence, gotta love it)
mabey, cut back to just test for a while.
good luck to you

[chris2wire]

I gotta say this...

People on AAS tend to feel insecure aout their bodies. Its the plain truth.

If youre spending 500-1000 a MONTH, then you may be a little obsessive and may be seeing that changes that are overwhelming you emotionally and making you an addict basically.

Its how an eating disorder starts, its how my anorexia started. You diet SLIGHTLY, and you see a big change, and you overreact and start dieting way to much (or not eating at all). Before you know it, and you wont know it until people intervene, you have a disorder.

You, my friend, seem to be going along this path.

[martinim66]

Make a choice half of everything or come off!!! LET ME THINK???? Also get a job and she will stop bitching!!!

[Tazwell]

Make a choice half of everything or come off!!! LET ME THINK???? Also get a job and she will stop bitching!!!

that is a ridicules over simplification of the situation... if it was a joke.. don't joke your not funny... offer constructive criticism or don't post please.

[lavaman]

Thanks for the replies, I'm still pissed off but the situation here is much more complicated.

Before I was properly diagnosed with having a prolactoma, a pituatary tumor from raised prolactin levels.. My natural testosorone production was only 40, it should have been in the 600-700's, my prolactin was a 1000 it should have been a 7. I weight from a very healthy 240, to a obese 435 in just under 2 years. I was very letheragic deppresed etc, and weak in spirit and my personality was very non-aggresive. My wife at the time liked the role since she could control me, but now it's been 5 months since I've gotten properly diagnosed and I've lost ove 60 pounds dropped 17 percent body fat, almost trippled my bench, more confident, better looking, loosing my fat, healthier, not as dependant etc.... When I was sick my sex drive was zero, and now it's through the roof and she all of a sudden doesnt want to put out..
Guys, if your on AAS or have natural test levels Sex only once a week is not enough, and it's like she's holding out on me all of a sudden for paybeck for me being horny all the time...and not this weak senstive suck up guy.

I'm hearing her constantly say.. I dont love this new guy ( me after being sick) I miss the old you... blah blah blah.. phuk that shit, I'm not going back to that old weak shit again.. I work out 3 hours a day, and she tells me now that I dont spend time with her.. all she wants to do is sit at home and watch tv... no thanks..

As far, as spending that much money on AAS it's because the GH is very expensive and I just recently found a source that has brough my over cost down to the 2-3 iu range pluss I don't plan on running any heavy gear after this cycle accept for the gh....

If any of you guys out there are married or have GF's then you know it's not easy trying to convince a women why your injecting drugs in your body.

[stocky121]

lavaman,

I would focus on getting back on my feet before aas. She is just worried bro, just calm her down. I have never experience this, due to the fact i'm not married.

good luck

sorry to but ross is back again could we get an IP check please

[AnaBolic_hOsS]

i am afraid you are mistaking..stocky

a little key of advise do not accuse someone, when you do not know

[stocky121]

i am afraid you are mistaking..stocky

a little key of advise do not accuse someone, when you do not know

if your not him then i apologize. But i still think you are him and you keep coming back to this site now son.

[collar]

lavaman try to comprimise with her some how.
all i can say is the money u are spending on gear is it effecting ur everyday life??
if so u will have to do something bout it
what i mean by that is are u spending so much money on gear that there is no money left for anything else if so , then that is selfish u have to think of wife.
but if its not effecting u guys financially i suggest u sit down and have good talk with each other.
u 2 know each other best so we cant give u advice on what u should do .....

[benchin' big]

put it this way what do you tell a woman with two black eyes??????




















nothing you told the bitch twice already!!!!!!

[rager]

Get ur s? togther... this is a jk....

[Benches505]

Drop down to a HRT or "cruising " dosage for a few months until you get situated with work. You can do it for less than 40$ a month that way and she will calm down. Check yourself before you wreck yourself and those around you.

[wothrottle]

bro,you have some seroius psychologic problems.
try a good diet and cut the gh, that should save you lotta money.
since you have enough free time, how about homebrewing?

[Dave321]

bro,you have some seroius psychologic problems.
try a good diet and cut the gh, that should save you lotta money.
since you have enough free time, how about homebrewing?

If he has serious pychological problems, than many of us have serious phycological problems.... Dude, I think you know what you have to do...

[Booz]

hey man you should get your priorities in order if you aint workin scale things down,if you aint got the wedge to spend on gear dont do it,you could end up losin your wife!

[SwoleCat]

Gotta agree with stretch. Spending $500 - 1000 / mos on gear while unemployed.... And angry?? You are going to be single soon my son. I think she has the right to be a bitch!

Agreed.

~SC~

[lavaman]

Hey I didnt mean to sound like a lunatic, And to yeah I got pyscological problems everyone does! ha ha ha

Seriously, though i'm responsable the money I spend on AAS I more then easly have the fund for through savings. I admit I'm a bit selfish but intiallly you have to be when your getting over a major setback...

Thanks for the advice though, I'm going to cut back a bit and find a way to hustle some money... .

[collar]

good luck man

[lavaman]

Peace...! But seriously I was hoping that I would get some advice on how you pro's manage to spend so much on aas and still have your significant others support what your doing.

[collar]

no idea how they do it
im natural
i would like to know too hehe

[YVR]

You definitely need to get a J-O-B. Theres no point looking all that in the mirror when you can't afford to even go out for a steak & lobster dinner.

Find something fast & start bringing home the bacon. As you're working keep hunting for a better opening.

Cheers

[Chenko]

I'm married and my wife knows that Im doing the gear. She didnt like the cost of it and the Idea that Im sticking myself with neddles every week. I told her I need it to strengthen my back and abs fast. i have some lower back problems and it bothers me at work. I told her I would give it a try to see if it helps and also knowing the gains for the rest of my body I should be in good shape for work( I have a physical job on night shift).

Anyway I would sit down and let your wife know how it is helping you physically to change you from the sick guy you were. If I read right you have cancer or something like that. Tell her if you didnt do this that maybe you wouldnt be here right now and ask her how she would feel about that. Lay a little guilt trip on her but dont be an ass about it. Cut down on the gear and eat better and you will be just as happy.

[scav]

I can see I am lucky. My girlie is a muscle addict and gets horny if i just tighten a muscle a LITTLE. She is totaly ok with juice as long as i dont get fat or starts hitting her

Maby you should do as I did, talk to her, try to tell her how the stuff works and WHY you feel that you need to use it. Oh btw, getting a job - no matter how hard it might be is allways a good start

Good luck bro.

[dirtyvegas]

lavaman,

I would focus on getting back on my feet before aas. She is just worried bro, just calm her down. I have never experience this, due to the fact i'm not married.

good luck

Ross u?

[coaltrain]

i am married as well. and let me just say from my experience woman or going to bitch no matter what. (just like some men) but to be spending that kinda money with out making money is a little hard to swallow for you wife.so if nothing else get a job at Wendy's or something.i bet this would make things go a little easer around the house.

[dirtyvegas]

can you say "divorce"

[SwoleCat]

Peace...! But seriously I was hoping that I would get some advice on how you pro's manage to spend so much on aas and still have your significant others support what your doing.

It's easy, you have your wife be a successful business-woman, and you use her money.

Duh!

~SC~

[colossus1]

Peace...! But seriously I was hoping that I would get some advice on how you pro's manage to spend so much on aas and still have your significant others support what your doing.

They personal train, guest pose, pose for magazines, get sponsore by supplemet companies........

besides im pretty sure their significant other adjusts to their lifestyle and not the other way around........

[fathertime2]

man bro your family come's first!

[Moosepellet]

Get a job! Bottom line, unless you want your wife to leave your @ss. Unless you don't love her, keep doing what you please

[THE RHINO]

My wife was not to keen on the idea at first, however has since changed her tune. Me getting myself back in shape and feeling good has renewed the spark in our relationship. We communicate more and better because I am not always so grumpy. I'm a first time user that has had a very positive first time cycle.

It sounds like you are dealing with a lot of issues that focus on only you. Perhaps if you ask your wife what YOU could do better to help HER she would be more supportive of your needs and decision to spend this money. While the money is the complaint, it sounds as if you have other root causes that are making your relationship rocky. I would be calm and open to discuss her needs and quit being so selfish.

[Sigmund Froid]

To be honest, you could probably drop the HGH. Bodybuilders have been getting in contest shape at a variety of different ages for much longer than HGH has been a standard part of a cycle.

[j martini]

Peace...! But seriously I was hoping that I would get some advice on how you pro's manage to spend so much on aas and still have your significant others support what your doing.

I live with an old gay man who pays for everything. As long as i switch his viagra with my nolva i dont have to do anything.

[dirtyvegas]

I live with an old gay man who pays for everything. As long as i switch his viagra with my nolva i dont have to do anything.