Originally posted by cnyce89
Vegas, thanks for your concern, this isnt my HS girlfriend, we actually didnt meet untill the summer after freshman year in college....We just hit it off and have been together for 2 yrs now. We had our down fall last summer, but it was my fault. It was my first real relationship and didnt really know the dos and donts so i screwed it up. But i learned from my mistakes, and it has made us a hell of a lot closer.
I cant imagine life without her.
We talked last night, and talked this morning for a bit, and were leaning towards keeping it. we felt it would be very selfish of us not to keep it. ie, loss of youth, sacrifices wed have to make etc...
Things are gonna be alot dif, yep they def are...
But the only reason she said shed consider not having it, is if she didnt think i would be there for her and the child...and well, she knows im a keeper and im in it for the long run soo....
Theres still time in case we deside dif.
This is something that takes alot of thinking about...
You are one very mature young man, and I hope your ladyfriend understands she has one special man. I don't care if anyone laughs at me for this, but I will tell the truth, it made me (for real it did) when you said you would be there for her and the baby if she kept it. Dude, respect for you went up 1000-fold in my eyes for you.

This life which she carries is your flesh & blood, and with it comes a responsibility that many young men would just rather let someone else take care of. You are amazing bro.

Okay you all can stop laughing at me now....I am just a very sensitive type of guy !