it doesnt matter what others not into the bodybuilding lifestyle think is big because they truely have no idea. People tell me how "big" they think i am, but in actually im nowhere near big. For those of us in the bodybuilding community there will never be a standard of what is big, because we will always want to be bigger, regardless of what others say. I think big is an obsession and a mind set. We tell ourselves, "ill stop bulking up once i get to a certain weight," bit once we get there we tell ourselves, "only five more pounds." The cycle will never stop. I say F**K IT and grow until you cant grow anymore. And after that, grow some more.