Mindbomb is respected here. He was just telling you the truth. There is no reason to be rude to someone who is just telling you a truth you dont want to hear.
People here for the most part will give you information based on experience. We are not exactly the library, however some members may have the info you are looking for tucked away somewhere.
Whether or not you get your anectdotal or scientific information, you have the wrong attitude to attract much help.