Quote Originally Posted by happysumo
So me and my lady friend have been going out about 4 months now and I think she is just board with our relationship. She is a hot girl and always gets plenty attention from the guys. She has been through a divorce almost a year ago, and I think she really got acustomed to all the attention from the other sex and cant let go of it, and dosent want to settle down again. So she has wanted "space" lately. I think she has wanted attention from other guys. I think she might be wanting someone else as well. Would I be dumb in asking her if she was seeing other guys? Would that just piss her off, like thinking I dont trust her or something?

Any ladies help would be nice!
You could ask in a more slightly less subtle way. Ask her if she wants to see other people?
Sometimes woman like the attention in general...but, never go further than that. It's a primative thing really..kinda like a game some play. "How many guys find me attractive?" To me..thats really a self esteem issue. Whether she's hot or not...there's always some insecurity with our looks. And, this is a way of reassuring us we are HOT, we are Attractive to the opposite (or same) sex.
But, sometimes its more. Personally, four months (to me) isn't long. And, it depends where you are in the relationship. Maybe you don't trust her...but, maybe she's also giving you reason to not trust her. And, if so...go with your gut instinct.
I suggest to give her the space she's asking for. Otherwise she just might resent you...and just cause a whole lot of hurt feelings toward you...and you toward her. Speaking from experience!
If she chooses to move on after giving her the space she needs...that was probably the best choice you could have given her...AND yourself.
But, be careful...and DON'T let her play you like a fool.
Good luck!