If you can teach your bro how to package gear, it could work, just have it sent to a fake name. Even if it gets discovered they have a tough time proving it was yours. Also, have your bro use a return addy from a resort, pref in some type of container that has the resort logo on it. Lots of people leave shit in motels, if it is nice enough they call the resort and have them ship it back. Anyhow that's my 2 cents.