Im Insanely Jealous in my relationship--tips?

[spywizard]

She has in fact told the people who I didnt want calling her to stop calling. She even changed her number for me last week to let me know how serious she is about it. Even when Im not with her if someone calls, she'll call me and tell me. It's not really about her, i think its more about me and my jealously problem. But Im pretty sure from now on, Ill just take a deep deep breathe, take a step back, and say I dont care. What you guys are saying makes sense, and I thank everyone for their replys...

ahhh.. so she is trying to make you feel secure.. good for you

[Pinkvelvet]

It sounds as though there are a lot of feelings that haven't been dealt with. What has happened in the past is exactly that....In The Past! But, obviously has not been forgotten. And, without acknowledging the feelings, you can't move forward. There is truth to everyones comments here; from counseling to moving on.

Without sometype of closure, your never going to have a healthy, truly fulfilling relationship in the future with the girl, and will even carry on to future relationships (if any).

As much pride as you may have to seek the help of a counsellor...please think about it. Pride is the crutch of the insecure!

Good Luck Sweetie!
HUGS!

[Pinkvelvet]

It sounds as though there are a lot of feelings that haven't been dealt with. What has happened in the past is exactly that....In The Past! But, obviously has not been forgotten. And, without acknowledging the feelings, you can't move forward. There is truth to everyones comments here; from counseling to moving on.

Without sometype of closure, your never going to have a healthy, truly fulfilling relationship in the future with the girl, and will even carry on to future relationships (if any).

As much pride as you may have to seek the help of a counsellor...please think about it. Pride is the crutch of the insecure!

Good Luck Sweetie!
HUGS!