the wife found out..

[stupidhippo]

As I have said b4 I belong to that group who cant say anything about juicing to the wife.. Well today the inevitable happened when she woke up throwing my vial at my face which I left in the bathroom.. Now I have to quit gym completely or find a new woman.. Dammit.. I know this was bound to happen but still. Damn women... it doesnt make this any easier that she is preagnant. I think Ill just go to the gym in secret (until I get caught again...)
Women are so difficult..

[needledik]

damn man why wouldnt she just say lay off the juice n continue to go to the gym?

or does this give you an excuse to also quit your job n lay on the couch eatin cheetos all day ?

[jws88]

Ya i hide it from my gf!! I now its not the same but it does suck

[Seattle Junk]

If she doesn't let you train, then she doesn't love you. That is your health and well being. Now her finding the juice, that's your fault. I would buy some good supps and tell her you're going clean. Then put your juice somewhere where she can't find it (garage?) or at a friend's place. Remember her hormones are whacked out right now while being prego. I would just keep telling her how sexy she is while being pregnant. Make her feel good about herself cause most women have poor self image when they start getting bigger.

I'm not Dr. Phil, I'm juiced....

[Safety31]

THAT FREAKING SUCKS!!i hide my stuff from my woman also...i mean its your wife so if it were me id listen to what she says for now..later she'll be ok with you going to the gym..and like the other dude said just keep your gear at a friends house...i dont live with my girl so its ok but if i did my gear would be no where near her...she would probably start searchin through the house just trying to find a reason to catch me doing something wrong...

[Growingpains]

Good Post Seattle. This is a toughy man, its like, on one hand you have to ask if she is worth dropping everything for, Ie. the gym you livelihood etc.

But also, Seattle is right in that she is probably super emotional right now and doesn't want a druggie as her kid's father...headache headache headache,

If I were you I would try to reason everything with her. In psychology they say that the more educated someone is about something and the longer they are exposed to something the more apt they are to warm up to the idea.

So, Maybe the idea of her BF protecting her forever, and being ripped isn't such a bad idea,

Just MO

good luck

GP

[goalseeker]

I told mine up front. And I never have to worry about it. However, your obviously in a different boat, so all I can say to you brother, is WHY DID YOU LEAVE THE FRIGGIN THING OUT WHERE SHE COULD FIND IT????
carelessness bro...you should have been more careful...hate to be u....

[stupidhippo]

Yeah it sucks.. she is using this as an excuse that the gym thing has gone too far (obsessive bahaviour in her mind) that quiting gym for a while is necessary. She wants family to come first, she doesnt understand it doesnt take anything away from them AND ofcourse she has those traditional misconceptions about steroid use.. If I would confess to her that I have been done some cycles already before maybe she would understand that I havent changed but then I would get caught of lying even more.. tricky.. Youd think she would be happy I eat so healthy and drink rarely etc.. Preagnant women sure can be difficult.. Really messed up leaving that shot there, just came from a long trip and was tired when I did the shot.. Ok gotta hit the gym now when she is in school.. heh..

[stupidhippo]

I told mine up front. And I never have to worry about it. However, your obviously in a different boat, so all I can say to you brother, is WHY DID YOU LEAVE THE FRIGGIN THING OUT WHERE SHE COULD FIND IT????
carelessness bro...you should have been more careful...hate to be u....

no kidding... man am I whipping myself about that.. Difficult since there is no way she would ever approve juice and there is no way Im gonna quit.. Have to be more careful in the future.. the thing is I will eventually get busted in the years to come..

[goalseeker]

you got the double trouble going there too bro...
If her pregnancy is anything like my 'ol lady was, it didnt matter what I told her, I was at fault.. I would just smile, and nod my head politely.. then smile again and agree with her... LOL

[IBdmfkr]

I'm 24 and married, the day that my wife gives me ridiculous ultimatums is the day she can move out. I love her more than anything but you are way too young and it is too early in your relationship for this type of nonsense (you lying and her thinking she runs shit). I feel for you bro, you have a very long road ahead of you. Btw, my wife gives me my shots sometimes lol..

[goalseeker]

I'm 24 and married, the day that my wife gives me ridiculous ultimatums is the day she can move out. I love her more than anything but you are way too young and it is too early in your relationship for this type of nonsense (you lying and her thinking she runs shit). I feel for you bro, you have a very long road ahead of you. Btw, my wife gives me my shots sometimes lol..

I agree with all this... plus mine shoots my left glute for me cuz Im r/handed..Its kinda funny sometimes cuz she starts to shake, then I laugh, then I say dont shake, then she laughs, then shakes and it hurts,etc... lol

[omnipotent]

I'm 24 and married, the day that my wife gives me ridiculous ultimatums is the day she can move out. I love her more than anything but you are way too young and it is too early in your relationship for this type of nonsense (you lying and her thinking she runs shit). I feel for you bro, you have a very long road ahead of you. Btw, my wife gives me my shots sometimes lol..

Word couldn't agree more ..

i think you dudes should tell your women that yur doing/planning on doing gear .. this way its Less of an issue , no deceptions no problems .

im too young to be married but , i always tell the girls im goin out with or just screwin that im on juice , just incase i get out of control =D

[stupidhippo]

I hear that IBd but the upcoming kid makes things more complicated.. Gotta make sure I wont get caught again.. its gonna be harder to do though when she is suspicious. Been able to get by before from many sticky situations just because she thinks I would never lie to her.. Feel kinda hippocritical doing so but I still think its for her own good since she wont be able to make an unbiased judgement on this matter.. Hell I am a pretty good husband when on juice, Im home a lot and hardly ever go out with the boys etc... You'd think she would appreciate that but no.. Lies suck but if I wanna still juice cant be without them.. Leaving a preagnant wife would seem kinda harsh too..

[Dense 03]

If your wife agrees with it, and she understands everything and goes along with it, that's good... but you have to understand something:

Steroids are illegal, and getting caught with them could mean jail time... your wife is pregnant with your kid and she finds a vial/needle, so of course she is going to flip the hell out.

She probably fears for her health and future, your health and future, and the babies health and future.

If you have a kid comin' up, do you have the money to spend on gear?

Think about it.

You're going to be a father. You are no longer responsible for just yourself.

Don't be selfish.

[jwhit]

not telling the wife. I haven't cycled yet, but I'm thinking about it, and there is no way I'd tell her... she'd freak and would think I'm going to die in a year or something.

Then again, she might notice if my balls disappear.

[stupidhippo]

to dense: I get your point but the thing is that I live in a country where posession of steroids is pretty much non punishable thing. The money issue is one but I can guarantee the baby a reasonable financial security and from its well being the money I spend on juice is irrelevant. She sis actually say though that it is the same thing if I brought drugs here now but I disagree with that.

[tranzit]

My wife is cool with it. She worrys about me. but i treat her good and she knows that i wouldnt never do anything to mess up what we have. I have said this before.. the first time she found out was on our honeymoon.. in mexico.. i had never been to mexico before and when we went into the drug store to get some medicine for motion sickness a light from jesus shined on the Redi inject sust 250.. birds chirped harps were playing.. and i was in awe.. it just stood there like charlie bucket looking at a wonka bar.. i asked to see it looked at a few things.. then decided.. to take her to lunch and come clean.. i explained the miss information that was being given by our country and told her my entire history with it. I went back and picked up a few things before we left. After we got home i pulled out the books i had been hiding from her for years. the steroid bible. and the underground steroid book. I read her some things out of the books then showed her what i had in my safe. Quite a bit of gear... i then had her read articles faqs ect.. so she could understand what it was really all about. She excepted it and is fine with it. She actualy has used clen now and likes it alot. I give her the doses and keep everything pretty much under lock and key. I also have multiple places "another house" that is not in my name where i keep the majority of my gear. its all for personal use but i admit i horde things. Now you need to understand.. my wife isnt trailor trash who has been around drugs.. she has never used a drug. smoked a cig or done anything beyond booze, she a lawyer, came from a VERY religious back ground. Is and was active in polotics and is a great mother and wife. So what i am saying here.. is if a conservative, religious college educated women can except this. I have to belive that if you present a strong case to her and are not a complete **** stick that she will listen to your side of things.

[tranzit]

I'm 24 and married, the day that my wife gives me ridiculous ultimatums is the day she can move out. I love her more than anything but you are way too young and it is too early in your relationship for this type of nonsense (you lying and her thinking she runs shit). I feel for you bro, you have a very long road ahead of you. Btw, my wife gives me my shots sometimes lol..

You know whats funny IBD.. you and i had our bad times.. but we are so much alike in alot of ways its rediculas haha

[slob]

if i was in that position :
id would either be upfront from the beginning or;
tell her im not stopping and explain the benefits vs risks.
end of the day no one tells u what gear u can and cant take- its your body

[LowStrea]

That does suck. my wife is an RN she will give me all my shots. I told her I was thinking of using gear and she told me all the bad health shit. She also said if I do start she will help me the right way.Then again my wife knows I have two kids in Germany that I had with in our marriage. She knows I ****ed around a lot hell I was in the army for 6 years. But I tell you what if she ever asked me to quit I would because family well my kids come before my own life.

So make up your mind gear and child support or wife and kid(s).

[LowStrea]

if i was in that position :
id would either be upfront from the beginning or;
tell her im not stopping and explain the benefits vs risks.
end of the day no one tells u what gear u can and cant take- its your body

Until the end of the day when she calls the cops and they bust his ass and he ends up with child support and alimony

[stupidhippo]

So make up your mind gear and child support or wife and kid(s).

Heh.. or lie some more and think of something when u get caught the next time... sonds like sensible plannig

[LowStrea]

Heh.. or lie some more and think of something when u get caught the next time... sonds like sensible plannig

Its your choice we can't make it.

[stupidhippo]

I know... but man is the atmosphere cold right now.. she has her mind set on the fact that I cant go to the gym for a month to "prove that they come first". So far she is not listening to any reason what so ever.. IMO thats a pretty unrealistic demand..

[Tren Bull]

As I have said b4 I belong to that group who cant say anything about juicing to the wife.. Well today the inevitable happened when she woke up throwing my vial at my face which I left in the bathroom.. Now I have to quit gym completely or find a new woman.. Dammit.. I know this was bound to happen but still. Damn women... it doesnt make this any easier that she is preagnant. I think Ill just go to the gym in secret (until I get caught again...)
Women are so difficult..

ohh man, why is she making you quit working out? that is striaght fu_ked up

[Rolsroyce]

well as I see it ,if you love your wife and want your family to work you need to go natural and train that way till you can convince her or educate her on the benefits of it if done correctly. With proper blood tests and pct it can be safe. Dont lie bro ,it just makes things too hard. If you love her then you want to be honest with her right? Should have thought of all this before you got married. My wife knows everything I do and has actually done some var herself. Good luck in making your decision bro....

[Tren Bull]

damn man why wouldnt she just say lay off the juice n continue to go to the gym?

or does this give you an excuse to also quit your job n lay on the couch eatin cheetos all day ?

fu_k that... fu_k layin on the couch and eating cheetos all day... its all about building that manly man physique

[justtrnd40]

Have you thought about trying to get a script for the as. If you could go through a HRT clinic or a dr theres not much she could say if she is worried about the legal issues. My wife knows about my use and is very comfortable with it. I had her read alot about test and gh so she would be more informed about them rather than go by the bullsh!t that is talked about on t.v.

[Tren Bull]

Ya i hide it from my gf!! I now its not the same but it does suck

i dont hide it from my girlfriends... i tell it to them straight up. then i say " hey girl, dont you love my 17 inch arms??? dont you want me to improve on my seemingly flawless physique? then back the fu_k up off my nuts and let me do what the fu_k i am going to do"

[Rolsroyce]

Have you thought about trying to get a script for the as. If you could go through a HRT clinic or a dr theres not much she could say if she is worried about the legal issues. My wife knows about my use and is very comfortable with it. I had her read alot about test and gh so she would be more informed about them rather than go by the bullsh!t that is talked about on t.v.

Very true bro

[STONES2]

I know... but man is the atmosphere cold right now.. she has her mind set on the fact that I cant go to the gym for a month to "prove that they come first". So far she is not listening to any reason what so ever.. IMO thats a pretty unrealistic demand..

Bro if you do not start running that house now you will be on this board in a couple of years telling us about a divorce.

I am not here to tell how to run your marriage but to inform you what I have seen time after time.

Twostones

[Tren Bull]

damn it woman, i am going for that male stripper look.. dont you want that??? yes??? then leave me the fu_k alone

[robbiminator]

If your wife agrees with it, and she understands everything and goes along with it, that's good... but you have to understand something:

Steroids are illegal, and getting caught with them could mean jail time... your wife is pregnant with your kid and she finds a vial/needle, so of course she is going to flip the hell out.

She probably fears for her health and future, your health and future, and the babies health and future.

If you have a kid comin' up, do you have the money to spend on gear?

Think about it.

You're going to be a father. You are no longer responsible for just yourself.

Don't be selfish.

Wise words, my friend. Are a few extra pounds worth risking your marriage for?

[goalseeker]

You know whats funny IBD.. you and i had our bad times.. but we are so much alike in alot of ways its rediculas haha

AWWWW... ..hahaha J/K Tranz!!!!!!

[spywizard]

damn bro.. sorry to hear about the upcoming divorce...

but then again, my wife will do the injections for me..

good luck with your new future..

[SwoleCat]

Look for support, avoid control.

~SC~

[G-1000]

That sucks bro. But thr truth is you should not have hid it from her. i bet she is more mad about that then any thing els.

[spywizard]

yea, if you are hiding that from her, what else are you hiding from her???

at least that's her mindset... time to grow some balls, if she says choose to this, how many other situations will she have to use it for..

then she will have your kids to hold against you..

but worst of all, she now has physical evidence that you are an "unfit" father, and a felon if convicted...

take it easy.. people either help you or try to control you.. you have to decide who you surround yourself with..

[Mizfit]

I'm confused whu u have to quit.. women shouldn't make u have to chose..

Educate her.. maybe she doesn't know enough to really understand