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    Why do men..

    feel the need to look at porn when they have a hot girlfriend allready ? i dont understand why my boyfriend looks at porn so much. lol when i ask him why.. he tells me bcuz he likes it. sometimes he'll even llook at it on my labtop... and it makes me mad if he always does it... lol alot of the girls arnt even that good looking! i dont get it.. i told him i feel like im not good enough when he looks at the ones i think are better looking than me and obviously have better bodies.. lol he says i am.. so why look at them.. look at ur g/f for cryen out loud.. lol

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    Its not necessarily because you aren't good enough. Its more of a need. If you aren't there, hey theres the computer. Don't mean to be graphic but thats how it is. Girls and guys obviously see this issue very differently, but you shouldn't worry about it. People are always like "porn makes men see women as objects" but thats bs. Was that good or did I confuse you more?

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    Quote Originally Posted by chest6
    Its not necessarily because you aren't good enough. Its more of a need. If you aren't there, hey theres the computer. Don't mean to be graphic but thats how it is. Girls and guys obviously see this issue very differently, but you shouldn't worry about it. People are always like "porn makes men see women as objects" but thats bs. Was that good or did I confuse you more?
    lol well i guess he dosnt look at me as an object then.. and i would sure hope not! lol he likes to look at porn but then when i suggest going to a porn shop or volunteering to go with him to the strip club for his best friends birthday.. hes not up for. good im glad he didnt wanna go to the strip club.. but a porn shop.. they have lots of goodies.. i dont get it . lol i dont have to do much to please him. i guess thats good he dosnt have to look at porn when hes layin in bed with me... can u explain that? lol he will sit in bed with me on my laptop sometimes and look at it. whatever.. im over it.. its a guy thing. ill just look at it with him so im not completly bored lol. lol

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    Emotions determine all human behavior.
    Men are more direct about it..
    anticipating sex/porn in mind (visual) = Emotion (sexual/horny) = behavoir (actual sex/or porn)
    Women not so direct.
    Emotion (sexual/horny) = behavoir (sex)
    thing with women is triggering those emotions, but usually it has a more auditory element, with a mix of basic seductive qualities only few men really understand. Men are easily satisfied (visuals) also, so the porn route is just more convenient. Its nature. Someone has be the aggresive sex otherwise none of us would be here.
    i have too damn much to say about this man/woman thing, im going to bed

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bojangles69
    Emotions determine all human behavior.
    Men are more direct about it..
    anticipating sex/porn in mind (visual) = Emotion (sexual/horny) = behavoir (actual sex/or porn)
    Women not so direct.
    Emotion (sexual/horny) = behavoir (sex)
    thing with women is triggering those emotions, but usually it has a more auditory element, with a mix of basic seductive qualities only few men really understand. Men are easily satisfied (visuals) also, so the porn route is just more convenient. Its nature. Someone has be the aggresive sex otherwise none of us would be here.
    i have too damn much to say about this man/woman thing, im going to bed

    did u study this stuff? i enjoy reading ur responses im however the agressive one physically in our realtionship.. lol so what do u suggest.. when he looks at porn in front of me.. he's horny... and i should give him some?

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    the point of porno is more probably about seeing things happening to women that he couldnt probably do with you. he imagines himself doing the merry x-mas or whatever else there is haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Psychotron
    the point of porno is more probably about seeing things happening to women that he couldnt probably do with you. he imagines himself doing the merry x-mas or whatever else there is haha.
    he could do about 95% of the stuff with me that he sees online.. if he allready hasnt. now explain that? lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marisa
    he could do about 95% of the stuff with me that he sees online.. if he allready hasnt. now explain that? lol
    men love to see women naked. as that redneck comedian said

    "Some friends of mine asked me if I wanted to go to a strip club, and I didn't... want to. 'cause, back me up on this, fellas: once you've seen one woman naked, you... pretty much wanna see the rest of 'em naked. It can be an old biker chick, you know, they're gonna hang down to here. 'Wanna see me naked?'... Yeah, I do! "
    Last edited by Psychotron; 03-06-2006 at 12:39 AM.

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    I am going to profrom in pornos this summer I will let you guys know what is up

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    porn is just fun... can't really explain it.... its all just a superficial need for males i think...

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    Quote Originally Posted by TREN-dy_Party_Dancer
    I am going to profrom in pornos this summer I will let you guys know what is up
    r u a guy or a girl? i wouldnt mind watchin porn as much if there were some hot guys. in our video that we have.. the guys are gross.. it makes me sick. lol

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    I have been maried for 10 years and still watch porn if you are as into sex as you say and 100% open to whats turning him on in the movies and he is still blowing you of for it then I would say that its his problam and you should go find 1 of the other 99.9% of men out there that would love to have your sexy little ass.

    P.S is the .5% that he dosent get anal

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    Is this the 5% he's missing?

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    Quote Originally Posted by horse2006
    I have been maried for 10 years and still watch porn if you are as into sex as you say and 100% open to whats turning him on in the movies and he is still blowing you of for it then I would say that its his problam and you should go find 1 of the other 99.9% of men out there that would love to have your sexy little ass.

    P.S is the .5% that he dosent get anal
    haha The 5% would prob the girl on girl which he dosnt want from me and the fact that he dosnt get head or layed as much as he would like because we both live with our annoying parents rite now and its kinda hard when their always home and we both dont always wanna go out in the car some place. And the cum shot on the girls faces thing.. sorry but that's not happening to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by NotSmall
    Is this the 5% he's missing?
    I just fell out my chair seeing that LMAO

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigrob33
    I just fell out my chair seeing that LMAO
    I'm offended that you haven't loaded yours up as your avvy yet , it's posted in Mizfits thread about not being able to see who's reading a thread.

    Go on, join the club!

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    I could have sex 5 times a day and I would still squeese the one eyed cyclops once a day. A man needs his private time with his best friends. Thats just the way it is

    A guy and his right hand is the longest love story ever. The hand knows exactly how we want it.

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    Its a fantasy. Some things seen on pornos are things u cant really do wit ur gf no matter how hot she might be.
    Let me give u a example, i love my baby more than life. We do a lot of freaky stuff together no doubt and theres some things i just cant do wit her cuz i love her so much, like bustin a nut in her face. Even if i asked my girl if i could do it she probably say yes but i wouldnt really feel good over it.
    So where do guys go to fulfill this fantasy? Porn is ur answer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marisa
    haha The 5% would prob the girl on girl which he dosnt want from me and the fact that he dosnt get head or layed as much as he would like because we both live with our annoying parents rite now and its kinda hard when their always home and we both dont always wanna go out in the car some place. And the cum shot on the girls faces thing.. sorry but that's not happening to me.
    the key to good sex from a girl, is how slutty you can be - talking dirty, always moaning, being very giving during sex etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marisa
    feel the need to look at porn when they have a hot girlfriend allready ?

    We do it because god gave us hand which could reach our cocks!.

    Sorta like the joke....

    Q; Why does a dog lick its balls?.

    A; Because it can!.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BOUNCER
    We do it because god gave us hand which could reach our cocks!.

    Sorta like the joke....

    Q; Why does a dog lick its balls?.

    A; Because it can!.
    LMFAO !!!! Its simple my dear, women are from Venus and Men are from Mars

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marisa
    lol well i guess he dosnt look at me as an object then.. and i would sure hope not! lol he likes to look at porn but then when i suggest going to a porn shop or volunteering to go with him to the strip club for his best friends birthday.. hes not up for. good im glad he didnt wanna go to the strip club.. but a porn shop.. they have lots of goodies.. i dont get it . lol i dont have to do much to please him. i guess thats good he dosnt have to look at porn when hes layin in bed with me... can u explain that? lol he will sit in bed with me on my laptop sometimes and look at it. whatever.. im over it.. its a guy thing. ill just look at it with him so im not completly bored lol. lol
    I went to a porn shop with a girl once. We started making out in the store. Then left and went to the car. It was raining and cold so we had to wait all the way 'til we got inside the car. The vette is to small to do much. So I got a bj on the way to drop her off at her parents house.
    It was cool, 'cause it was as much a turn on for her as it was for me.
    Don't know why he doesn't want to go there with you. Next time, you call the shots. Tell him you're taking him out, but don't say where and you drive. Git-r-done!

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    Quote Originally Posted by 63190
    Git-r-done!
    The one phrase GUARANTEED TO NEVER GET YOU LAID.

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    I don't see an issue with porn.. we as humans look

    i would even look at it with him..

    I think most ppl have issues because they r insecure

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marisa
    feel the need to look at porn when they have a hot girlfriend allready ? i dont understand why my boyfriend looks at porn so much. lol when i ask him why.. he tells me bcuz he likes it. sometimes he'll even llook at it on my labtop... and it makes me mad if he always does it... lol alot of the girls arnt even that good looking! i dont get it.. i told him i feel like im not good enough when he looks at the ones i think are better looking than me and obviously have better bodies.. lol he says i am.. so why look at them.. look at ur g/f for cryen out loud.. lol
    We're gonna need pics to substantiate this. It may be that your not actually that hot . Post up some pics and we'll tell you if you're justified in being angry at your bf.

    S

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    Quote Originally Posted by NotSmall
    Is this the 5% he's missing?
    wheres the whip u naughty boy

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mizfit
    wheres the whip u naughty boy
    Erm, you've still got it since our last meet!

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    Quote Originally Posted by NotSmall
    Erm, you've still got it since our last meet!
    I'm fiesty i guess.. i can't help it.. and to think this is just the net...

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    If god didn't want us to look at porn he would not have given us eye's or the girls with low self-esteem to be in porn.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TREN-dy_Party_Dancer
    I am going to profrom in pornos this summer I will let you guys know what is up
    please do so we know what NOT to rent

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    Quote Originally Posted by MartyMcFly
    If god didn't want us to look at porn he would not have given us eye's or the girls with low self-esteem to be in porn.

    lol.

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    Is this the 5% he's missing?
    ROFL thank you...I needed that hilarity after failing my history test

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    Quote Originally Posted by NewKid
    ROFL thank you...I needed that hilarity after failing my history test
    u failed history.. shame on u

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    Quote Originally Posted by NewKid
    ROFL thank you...I needed that hilarity after failing my history test
    lmao

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    u failed history.. shame on u
    it wasnt my fault...history happened wrong...

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    I thought your relationship expert here, why are you asking us?

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    Quote Originally Posted by NotSmall
    Is this the 5% he's missing?
    LMAO!

    That made my day.. thanks

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    I think Marisa is fit for the pit i think this lil taylor chick is good though.. lets keep her

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mizfit
    I think Marisa is fit for the pit i think this lil taylor chick is good though.. lets keep her
    Meeeeow!

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