I feel like an ass... Got mad at the girlfriend... What are your thoughts?

[Dave321]

Hey everybody...

[bad_man]

You feel like an ass????

Dude, are you serious? Grow a pair.

If you keep your mouth shut, you'll have the best dressed girlfriend in the apartment complex.

[chest6]

I dont think you should have felt bad. I think its stupid how she went off and spent $ on clothes. Whats the big obsession w/ women and clothes anyway? Be like "Okay...you can shop..I guess we wont get the house.."

[taiboxa]

ur never on aim ><
ur a homo if u feel like an ass
thats mad money for STUPID STUFF!

[Dave321]

You feel like an ass????

Dude, are you serious? Grow a pair.

If you keep your mouth shut, you'll have the best dressed girlfriend in the apartment complex.

well, Getting pissed at my chick and making her cry for telling her how to spend her money... does make me feel like a bit of an ass... she works her ass off for that $... unfortunately , you don't understand.

[LX-1]

id never date a high maitinence girl.

[farrebarre]

bro, u did the only right thing.
your saving all of ur hard earned $ for a place where both of u r gonna live. she spends hers cash on clothes?
i mean if ur both gonna live their she better start saving too...

[Dave321]

id never date a high maitinence girl.

she's not high maintenance... far from it... she works for a leading marketing company and feels the "need" to always keep up with the Jones's... chea know...

[Dave321]

I dont think you should have felt bad. I think its stupid how she went off and spent $ on clothes. Whats the big obsession w/ women and clothes anyway? Be like "Okay...you can shop..I guess we wont get the house.."

werd!

[steve0]

YES and NO and here s why.

YES- because you are saveing for a place and she know that.

NO- Because its her money and shes your GF not ur Wife.

[Dave321]

YES and NO and here s why.

YES- because you are saveing for a place and she know that.

NO- Because its her money and shes your GF not ur Wife.

soon to be fiance... does that make any difference?!?

[steve0]

have you already purposed, ??? does she have any idea that she is about to be your fiance ?

[Dave321]

have you already purposed, ??? does she have any idea that she is about to be your fiance ?

she knows... not now, but in the very near future...

[steve0]

well you already blew up on her to start with so i guess you could apoligize ask her why she did it when you both are saveing to get a place

[G-1000]

Bro you need to sit down with you girl and have a talk. If you two are not on the same page you will never get any were. If she is also looking to by a home with you she will stop spending and help save.

[1819]

buy the house by yourself. this way, if things dont work out down the road, you can politely show her the door with no problems or financial ties.

[taiboxa]

shank her w/ a piece of glass.. !?

[GunTotingHipGangster]

my ex was the same way...shopping can be a drug for women. i'd say sit down and have a talk with her and try to work things out

i don't think you should be upset for having a problem with her spending, but if you raised your voice then that might have been unnecessary, but nothing an appology shouldnt fix

[LX-1]

shank her w/ a piece of glass.. !?

[heavyrotation92]

buy the house by yourself. this way, if things dont work out down the road, you can politely show her the door with no problems or financial ties.

Agreed. "My house, my rules". Thats the way I like it.

[restless1]

she's not high maintenance... far from it... she works for a leading marketing company and feels the "need" to always keep up with the Jones's... chea know...

HOW DO YOU NOT CONSIDER THIS HIGH MAINTENANCE TRYING TO KEEP UP W/ SOMEONE ELSE........SORRY CAPS LOCK

[Dave321]

buy the house by yourself. this way, if things dont work out down the road, you can politely show her the door with no problems or financial ties.

well, fortunately things not working out is not an option... but I hear ya on buyin' the house... my rules, my house!

[Dave321]

HOW DO YOU NOT CONSIDER THIS HIGH MAINTENANCE TRYING TO KEEP UP W/ SOMEONE ELSE........SORRY CAPS LOCK

$1000 this month was EXTREME... she is easy going and doesn't ask me for shit...

[Timm1704]

buy the house by yourself. this way, if things dont work out down the road, you can politely show her the door with no problems or financial ties.

yes, if i was in your boat, id save that little while longer and buy the house myself. its easier, and, if you share a mortgage, the woman always get the house post-divorce lol

[Mizfit]

How old r u?

[MASTER]

Punish her in the pooper, no lube! That'll teach her not to go on silly spending sprees!

[Dave321]

How old r u?

you know me... check the custom title... mizzy

[Dave321]

Punish her in the pooper, no lube! That'll teach her not to go on silly spending sprees!

fantastic idea!!! I'll make it better than the last time! muahahaha

[cfiler]

I wouldn't worry about it. Just talk to her, and she'll understand that what she did was silly.

Either that or punch her in the vagina. 60% of the time, that works everytime.

[Dave321]

I wouldn't worry about it. Just talk to her, and she'll understand that what she did was silly.

Either that or punch her in the vagina. 60% of the time, that works everytime.

I'm pissing myself laughing... punch her in the vagina...

[Mizfit]

Your not supposed to change your name Jack ASS!!

how old is she.. then..

but if you have discussed it and she still doesn't get it.. this could lead to more issues down the road

[*Alex*]

well........you cant just cut your girl off. you got to make your lady happy and you will be happy as well. so make a deal with her , talk about how much you and her can spend a month , so you can still put money away for your future home together! and no, dont feel bad!

[helium3]

some women have real problems when it comes spending money i no quite a few who just max out thier credit cards and end up 1000s of £s in debt and just carry on as though theres nothing wrong with it wtf?
i would say chill out but its better you get an idea of how serious the situation is or could be in the future. all bitches is hoes!

[TheMudMan]

Why not both of you live on a budget until the house is bought. This way you both know what is expected from each of you to get to your goals. Someone spends more then what is budgeted for needs to make it up the next month.

You shouldn't make excuses for her because this will only bite you in the ass down the road. My first wife would spend up her earnings and then tap into mine. This is part of the reason why she's me ex-wife now

[Tren Bull]

Hey everybody...

Here's the deal, in a nutshell... been saving for the past 6 months for a condo/house with my GF. Nothing commited to areas or places yet because my job is crazy and all over the place. I have been putting away as much $ as possible, and she spends money on clothes like crazy... this month $1000.00 (that could have been put toward our place). I just got pissed at her and said it was rediculous she spends her $ on clothes like that when we are saving for a place... I feel like a bit of an ass and made her upset. Did I have a right to bring up that point OR is her money her business?

What would you doooo!?!?!

Your advice is appreciated... tank ya.

you have to understand that anger will only complicate things and cause more problems. the best way to handle a situation like this is to explain to her that you and she are a team, and that you need to work together. it isn't fair for her to expect for you to pay for absolutely everything

[taiboxa]

i have found that yelling is by far the most effective method i know of for fixing stuff in relationships..

[Streaker]

Relationship 101 Communication - Communication – Communication
Sounds like this has been bothering you for a while and you had not brought it up until you got really pissed. Next time wait tell the next day and have a calm conversation about it and better yet don’t wait so long to bring it up. I’m sure if you apologize to her and just let her know how you have been feeling you will come to a good understanding. All you have to do is let her know how you feel. Sound like she is a great girl and she will understand. If she doesn’t understand and you can’t come to an agreement then she is not the right girl for you and you need to do what cfiler says and punch her in the vagina.

[Tren Bull]

i have found that yelling is by far the most effective method i know of for fixing stuff in relationships..

yea i guess, if its an abusive relationship.

[*Alex*]

i have found that yelling is by far the most effective method i know of for fixing stuff in relationships..

its like saying "just put it in her pooper and everything will be ok"

[Streaker]