Depressed

[PrairieDawg]

I'm going through the same shit. its driving me crazy how one minute she says its over for good and the next she's not sure. cut her loose and she'll come crawling back.

[RA]

Coming from a girl who had to do this to the only man in the world she loved, I completley disagree with you. I wasnt with anyone and didnt want that at all. Sometimes women need to grow up and have some space to figure out who they really are without their other half living with them for 4 yrs. Esp wen marriage is a possiblity. Hang in there babe. Im so sorry this happnd to u. My advice is to actually take some time apart with no communication whatsoever. If you guys are meant to be together it will happn. If you ever need to talk pm me.

Im still going with Ironadam. I would ditch this woman fast fast fast..no contact.

[RA]

find out who you are..lol.. thats like saying its not you its me.

[MASTER]

Stop hanging out with here dude, start haging with some other bitches, if she really wants you still she will come running back, because to me it seems at the moment shes keeping you close as a safety.

[*Alex*]

Exactly. She's probably bangin' some other guy(s) and doesn't want to feel guilty, so she broke up so that "technically" you guys aren't together.

Bunch of shit.

~SC~

BINGO.

[Prol]

OK........so dude alittle advice .............From a guy how in your shoes in even heavyer situation ..............I was in a relationship for 4 years,got had daughter with my x ,lived together,did everything together.........i mean for day one to the day we brokeup we were always together .......when we brokeup it hurt and it still hurts but you just got to wakeup everyday knowing that something good is going to comeout of it and just pray that God gives you the focus to see what that good is .....maybe you'll get back together or maybe not but something good is going to come of it ............take this time for yourself do things you wanted to do but didn't cause you we're with her ................before you go to bed take the time to look at all the good things that happend i your day even if it was that you had enough money to buy a BigMac .......but just start looking for all the positive things that each day brings.....and forget about the bad ........by doing that soon you'll have so much good stuff in your head that you'll not even think about the bad.......Take each day as it comes try to wake up forward to do something .......don't stay locked up in your room or house you'll go crazy (TRUST ME)....if you work see if you can find another job to make some extra cash in the side and it will help get her off your mind ,and also you be so tired you wont want to think of her and just want to go to bed ............thats what i did once i have a great job make my own hours and get good money but i had alot of free time so i got this jod of over seas customersupport....it paid crap but it was kind of fun and i got home late and tired and didn't have time to feel bad i just wanted to sleep .........................Dude keep your headup rememeber after the storm there is always peace .................