Quote Originally Posted by firmechicano831
I think that if she really loves you she should stop all communications with him unless he is picking up the child. Know what I would do is different then anyone else. If she really loved me I would tell her to call him in front of me and tell him that she is getting married with me. If she loves you and trust you she won't mind talking to him infront of you on the phone. If she says no, then shes hidding something for sure.
I'm not saying how she is acting in right. But what you are suggesting is to far the other way. She is probably trying to keep a civil relationship with the babies father. If you trust and love her you make her start a fight with her ex to prove it. What her ex is doing isn't the right thing also. But if she isn't responding to it and just blowing it of is it hurting you. When she confronts him and and he gets upset i guarantee the child suffers.