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    Family bullsh*t

    I'm pretty new on this forum. I've read a lot of posts, but never posted. I noticed that sometimes you guys give some really good advice on life issues. I have an issue.

    I have two sisters and currently we are not talking to each other. To make a long story short, they don't like my boyfriend of about a year and a half. They both hate men, generally. Pretty messed up. I was told to choose between living with my boyfriend or living rent free on my older sisters property, I chose my boyfriend. Both sister's came over to my house, I ended up trading some blows with one of them because she told me to, "get the dick out of my mouth."and to "stop being such a ****." Problem is they have cut my parents off of communication as well. My parents are pretty hurt about that. This is obviously only my side of the story, but everyone wants me to be the "bigger person." and apologize for all this sh*t, exept my boyfriend, of course. What would you do?

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    the second quote was, "stop being such a c*nt." I was bleeped out )

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    wow that sux
    kant really give u any advise .. because im a GUY LOL but hey BEST OF LUCK TO YA!

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    Well, first , WELCOME TO AR

    second. You can't live your life for your sisters, yes blood is thicker than water, but you only get one life to live, so they should live theirs and let you live yours.

    I would not live rent free because the price they are asking is still too high.

    good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by SMAN12B
    Well, first , WELCOME TO AR

    second. You can't live your life for your sisters, yes blood is thicker than water, but you only get one life to live, so they should live theirs and let you live yours.

    I would not live rent free because the price they are asking is still too high.

    good luck
    You homo u havent even commented on my rebound!

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    "I would not live rent free because the price they are asking is still too high."

    that's the frikin truth! I now live in a nice two bedroom with my boyfriend and we are very happy.

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    welcome to the lounge, enjoy ur stay, best rent free place u will find ^_^

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    Quote Originally Posted by taiboxa
    You homo u havent even commented on my rebound!

    YES i did, you sensitive twit.....you just didn't read it yet.....

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    its insensitive!

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    Quote Originally Posted by taiboxa
    its insensitive!
    i beg to differ

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    Quote Originally Posted by Foskamink
    welcome to the lounge, enjoy ur stay, best rent free place u will find ^_^


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    Omie.. where u get that username from.. is it .. FROM a CARTOON?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Foskamink
    welcome to the lounge, enjoy ur stay, best rent free place u will find ^_^
    Leave her alone Foreskin!

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    no cartoon, just a childhood nickname. I'm sure you've got some anime porn cartoon in ur head right now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Omie
    no cartoon, just a childhood nickname. I'm sure you've got some anime porn cartoon in ur head right now.
    ROFL no actually its xaiolin showdown lil cartoon on the cartoon network w/ lil dorky monks fighting for items and stuff ITS FUNNY LOL lil short bald kid is named omie or someting

    did u hear i dont need porn IM A MONK!

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    Quote Originally Posted by taiboxa
    ROFL no actually its xaiolin showdown lil cartoon on the cartoon network w/ lil dorky monks fighting for items and stuff ITS FUNNY LOL lil short bald kid is named omie or someting

    did u hear i dont need porn IM A MONK!
    OOPS, and here I thought that monks were the ones that needed the porn. I am SOOOOO sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Omie
    OOPS, and here I thought that monks were the ones that needed the porn. I am SOOOOO sorry.
    Hey! if u wanna fight bout its LETS GO SISTER!
    lol ><

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    sorry taiboxa, i don't fight little boys that still watch cartoons.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Omie
    sorry taiboxa, i don't fight little boys that still watch cartoons.
    but but but but but but but.. THEY FUNNY

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    awww

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    has the boyfriend ever done anything to make them concerned?

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    Quote Originally Posted by taiboxa
    Leave her alone Foreskin!
    player hater

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    Seem strange sisters to me. If you're happy, then what's their problem? They should be happy that you are. Why can't they accept that you have your own life and you'll live it your way? I think that sometimes to reach what you want, stepping on a few toes doesn't matter. Good luck and don't let it get you down.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mizfit
    has the boyfriend ever done anything to make them concerned?
    Not really. We had a bad breakup about six months ago but since then have worked everything out. I did make the mistake of confiding in my sisters at the time. Both have been divorced and think that all men are there to use and leave. I think a lot of tension built up over the years because I live a different, healthy, lifestyle. It doesn't really have to do much with him. Neither sister likes that I don't drink and party all the time. They want me to join in their self distructive lifestyles and I refuse. Guess this is what I deserve for being stable.

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    I would put my foot in both of their asses and then let a horse ass rape them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Omie
    Not really. We had a bad breakup about six months ago but since then have worked everything out. I did make the mistake of confiding in my sisters at the time. Both have been divorced and think that all men are there to use and leave. I think a lot of tension built up over the years because I live a different, healthy, lifestyle. It doesn't really have to do much with him. Neither sister likes that I don't drink and party all the time. They want me to join in their self distructive lifestyles and I refuse. Guess this is what I deserve for being stable.

    See thats the key - u confided in them and it was all bad.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mizfit
    See thats the key - u confided in them and it was all bad.
    what does confided mean?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mizfit
    See thats the key - u confided in them and it was all bad.
    exactly. They dont like him now. They dont have the feelings that you do so they have no reason to forgive him for hurting you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by muriloninja
    I would put my foot in both of their asses and then let a horse ass rape them.
    i have to agree with this advice.it should solve ur problems with both of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by taiboxa
    ROFL no actually its xaiolin showdown lil cartoon on the cartoon network w/ lil dorky monks fighting for items and stuff ITS FUNNY LOL lil short bald kid is named omie or someting

    did u hear i dont need porn IM A MONK!
    I love that show. it's also on WB Saturday morning. Tivo it!
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    Quote Originally Posted by muriloninja
    I would put my foot in both of their asses and then let a horse ass rape them.


    Can I join??

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    Do what's best for you and. Because ask yourself this: If you demanded your sisters to do something for you, would they come through for you? I'm a firm believer in that family will always be there for you, regardless of what decisions that you make.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mavsluva
    Do what's best for you and. Because ask yourself this: If you demanded your sisters to do something for you, would they come through for you? I'm a firm believer in that family will always be there for you, regardless of what decisions that you make.

    I don't know, sounds like she has a real shitty one.
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    You family should stick by any choice you make. I'd talk to them, and explain your opinion, aswell allow them to voice their conserns. I think having a professional mediator or counselor would be best to organise this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Omie
    Not really. We had a bad breakup about six months ago but since then have worked everything out. I did make the mistake of confiding in my sisters at the time. Both have been divorced and think that all men are there to use and leave. I think a lot of tension built up over the years because I live a different, healthy, lifestyle. It doesn't really have to do much with him. Neither sister likes that I don't drink and party all the time. They want me to join in their self distructive lifestyles and I refuse. Guess this is what I deserve for being stable.
    when you confided in them what exactly did you say about your boyfriend? i mean obviously it wasnt good because you guys had just had a bad breakup but if you told them that he hit you or something then i could completely understand their point of view.

    i would think the main reason your sisters dont like him is because of what you have told your sisters about him, right? so what exactly did you say to your sisters about your boyfriend?

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    yah this sounds beyond repair,
    your sisters got some serious issues..

    even if your bf did try to win them over somehow,
    theres is 2 of them, and they feed of each other,
    it would not work..
    just write it off, as Hate them for life, on the next IRS return, and go on with your life.

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    are they fat or ugly and cant get guys, or dykes?

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    if they are hot.. are they single? are they lookin?

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    Quote Originally Posted by death45456
    are they fat or ugly and cant get guys, or dykes?

    Probably just a couple of trashy sluts that run around drinking and ****ing whatever walks and hate her for living a decent life without drama.

    They are the type of people that have to cause friction if they notice others have none in their lifes, kind of the "If i'm not happy no one else should be either" type people.

    Like she say's, they hate men because they are idiots that have chosen shitheads from bars etc. and hate the fact that she found something they can never have; stability!

    It's plain to see.
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    Quote Originally Posted by muriloninja
    Probably just a couple of trashy sluts that run around drinking and ****ing whatever walks and hate her for living a decent life without drama.

    They are the type of people that have to cause friction if they notice others have none in their lifes, kind of the "If i'm not happy no one else should be either" type people.

    Like she say's, they hate men because they are idiots that have chosen shitheads from bars etc. and hate the fact that she found something they can never have; stability!

    It's plain to see.
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