Quote Originally Posted by king6
You shouldn't feel bad, it's not really natural to not have sex, it messes with your head. Do you love your current gf? I'm guessing not, because you are considering leaving her. I admit the timing is pretty horrible, with the holidays and all, but by saying she is saving herself for marrige, she is putting alot of commitment pressure on you, which is not right. If you are having doubts now then you best break it off, while you have a rebound girl lined up. Otherwise it will just end later, or you will marry her, either way.
Well he KNEW she was saving herself for marriage from the beginning, so if he can't hold out he shouldn't have been with her in the first place. If she's not ready for sex, then that's a valid and brave choice. Not saying I could ever do it, but some people have deep religious values.

To original poster: You sound like you are probably young, and probably not ready to get married, so do the honorable thing and let her go before you hurt her even more by cheating on her. I know guys can only hold out for so long She will be OK, yeah it sucks, but if you're not willing to wait for her and stay faithful, you need to tell her.