Dont go telling all your friends lol.. (not my work btw)
I write this in response to a few messages asking me about tactics I've used specifically tied to the sarging of MILFs. Looking back..this has just all been written in about 30minutes. It's rough, but if it generates some interest I'll contribute more. I've outlined the basic structure that has played out everytime I've landed an older woman. The most important point to remember is that sarging MILFs is much more hit and miss than a regular girl. What I mean is you have to be selective in your targets to find the right type of woman, but once you find her, the deal is rather easy to close. Some areas of this guide are much more specific than others, but I offers good, realistic advice. At this point I don't have time to flesh it out or write more details, but this should spark some discussion and perhaps pique some curiousities.
General Information
Written For: PUAs 18-23ish
Target: MILF is defined as a older woman, typically early to late thirties. This guide is not intended for women your age that happen to have kid(s).
Qualifications: I have laid half a dozen 30+ year olds in the past six months. These woman are NOT my usual targets, nor do I spend an undue amount of time in searching for them.
Link:
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Some Initial Thoughts
This guide is not intended to usurp any previously well-established theories. In its creation I am not suggesting that the fundamental principles which guide any sarge do not apply to a MILF. No, they apply to all women, nay, all people. My intent is to highlight specific tactics that have worked for me in the past and that I believe, when applied correctly, will aid an aspiring PUA to land the elusive MILF.
The Guide
The best place that I have found is upscale nightclubs and bars. These are the ones where you still find people your age, but you are noticeably younger than average. GREAT targets are bachelorette party sets. Your ideal target is a woman who has not been out in a while, who looks back, with some degree of nostalgia at her younger, more carefree days. Bachelorette parties are ideal because they are in a partying mood and the tone is already set for a bit of extracurricular activity.
Approach in the same way you would any woman. This flatters her. She thinks she still has it. But, she will soon realize that you are not there to hit on her. This confuses her. Why would he pick ME to ask such a question, she wonders? You can ask her about a girlfriend of yours, you can ask her about your older sister, ask her about your Mom. Whatever. I like to make sure the frame is established that I am not hitting on her.
Another good opener is that often the bride to be will be free in her dispensing of kisses as a last hoorah of sorts. If you're targeted, graciously accept the kiss. You can use this later to sequester one from your target as well.
You also need to realize that the logistics of a meet that night are particularly detrimental. Why? She is likely to have a husband and/or kids. Discretion is particularly important for this type. One fact that I have discovered is that a number from a MILF is much more SIGNIFICANT then a number from a regular girl. Why? For one, if she is married and gives her number she is obviously open to the idea. Two, older woman will tell you if you they don't want to give you their number. In my experience they do not give fakes or flake.
I keep the tone light on this first meet. My goal is sexual innuendo, some kissing, and perhaps some grinding. I assess her marital situation. Golden lines here include lines about your Mom warning you about such woman, of her being a seductress, of you being an innocent lad, etc. The idea is to present a dichotomy to her; on one hand, you are a innocent lad that she can show the ropes to, on the other hand, you understand the situation, you understand seduction, you understand how to push her buttons. It's erotic and she will find it attractive.
So, we are left with her number, perhaps some making out, and some suggestive talk. If you can close her that night, fine. That is my typical goal, but it is particularly difficult with a MILF due to her likely logistic problems. I like to make sure she has my number too. Usually I will give her my number first, and just put it in under a letter. I will then have her call me so I have hers. This works for all woman, not just MILFs. The reasoning is that later when you call or send a text message a familar name pops up. If you have targetted the right type she does not experience this type of attention often, she enjoys it and you will stick out in her mind. She isn't out every week, like a teenybopper, meeting a plethora of guys. The fact that you got anywhere with her suggests her being open to the prospects of being with a younger man that can perhaps satisfy some part of her that is not being satisfied. In all, there is less of a societal veil placed between you two because she is older, more mature, and in the end, has a better understanding of what she wants.
I don't like calling for the initial contact. I like to send text messages. I don't think this will make a drastic difference. But, if you play it right, you can have a lot more tries with texting than with phone messages. Also, an innocuous text allows her to cover up your advances if she needs to. Things like "My puppy is ridiculous", "This lemonade is sooo good.." are fine. You are NOT looking to ask questions, you are looking to make statements. Why? She likely won't respond a time or two. If you ask questions you DLV and dig a hole for yourself when she doesn't answer. This way, you're amusing yourself and it appears as though it doesn't matter if she responds or not.
Now, at some point, she will respond. Some banter is in order. She's responded, sober, you have her interest. Every MILF I have obtained, at this point, has asked me to meet her and her friends. Some have even asked me to bring some of my friends along for theirs. lol. Others I've met alone.
Either way, when you secure a second meeting with a MILF you are GOLDEN. She knows why she came, and she knows you know it. This isn't an early twenties something girl who could have a myriad of reasons for meeting. Don't take her putputting, don't take her to the movies, this shouldn't resemble a date in the slightest. Meet her at a bar or a club, preferrably where you first met. She will have logistics planned as to where you will ultimately end up. You just continue to offer the dichotomy of an innocent lad and a guy who knows what he is doing with woman. Target her soft spot and ruthlessly tease her about how your Mother would be so mad if she knew about this. Get a phone call, tell her it was your Mom. Doesn't matter. Draw a stark line between your ages. Make her CHASE you. At this point it's a game that is hard to **** up. Keep her emotionally interested and sexually engaged and you will be fine.
One last piece of advice. You better be ready for an intense night because compared to the MILF, the average woman your age is about as fun as jacking off with a cheese grater.
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Originally Posted by Bojangles69
Dont go telling all your friends lol.. (not my work btw)
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