face to face contact is different from over msn - bodyt language, facial movements, all your actions are more defined and put in the position of screwtiny(sp?)

Behind a monitor all this time you feel some sense of security.. maybe face to face you will be put in a postion where you are more vulnerable and get nervous about that.

Mavsluva point about bad and good girls was awesome - my boyfriend might not be wonderful to everyone, but in my eyes he is wonderful to me. When you clic with someone u see past any faults that may be in existence - sometimes this takes time.