pregnant by a deadbeat, want to kill him.

[BgMc31]

Went through the same thing with my sister. Unfortunately ain't shit you can do because she chose the dude and it's her that put herself in this situation. Beating the dude won't solve anything but cause you and your family more grief. The only thing you can do is be there and support whatever decision she decides to make. I'm the father figure in my nephews life as is our father. This can work but you cannot put yourself in a worse predicament by beating the idiot.

[carguy_z28]

A lot of what was said here has hit home a bit, I can understand what is being said by most, and can relate to it, as for the parent thing, my mother who she lives with, is a sick and twisted self sentered bitch. My father raised me by himself, while being a soldier, which made it hard for him as a father. He is a good role modle for me, yet I do get my anger from him. As far as Im concerned, I had a decent upbrining, and That is what has kept me out of jail thus far. But I also was taught to stand up and be a man, if you have a child, take care of it, and the woman. ETC... That is why I want to do what ever it takes to make this punk see that. I dont like the fact that he has knocked up my lil sister, but all the big brother shit aside, I mostly hate the fact that he is a drug dealer, and a loser to boot. He has stated he wants nothing to do with the kid, or my sister. Maybe killing the fag is a little far fetched, but smashing his face with my fist's and feet, or any unanimous object untill he has nothing left is still crossing my mind. Maybe Ill calm down a bit in the next few days, I only heard of this today, but I just want whats best for my sister. Thats whats important to me. I dont want her one of those losers that sit at home, doing nothing with there lifes, poping out kids every year to collect more welfare, wathing Jerry springer on tv feeling sorry for themselfs. She has more than that in her. And if he cant be a man and stand up for what hes done, then Ill do it for her. But I am eqully pissed at her for opening her legs for this usless punkass criminal. But that is somthing Ill have to leave alone for now. I dont want to stress her out and hurt the kid, so Ill have to wait to do whatever I decide to do untill after he/she is born. Thanks again guys. good to have some responsible people for support. All my friends and fellow soldiers, want to do this guy in good. You guys helpe d a lot.