pregnant by a deadbeat, want to kill him.

[Superhuman]

Supporting mistakes makes it "ok" to make them. When someone screws up, you let them suffer the consequences, not pad the fall so that it's easier to make another one and expect others to clean up the mess.

I completely agree with everything you said DecimaMAS... people need to take more responsibility for their actions. Having your parents raise YOUR child while you work or go to school is unacceptable. If you don't have the time to devote to raising a child then don't have a ****ing child. If you don't want to have a child then either don't have sex or be safe everytime. People can be so stupid

[carguy_z28]

I completely agree with everything you said DecimaMAS... people need to take more responsibility for their actions. Having your parents raise YOUR child while you work or go to school is unacceptable. If you don't have the time to devote to raising a child then don't have a ****ing child. If you don't want to have a child then either don't have sex or be safe everytime. People can be so stupid

This I agree with, I want to tell her too bad, deal with it, and I usually would, but being my family. I just cant. Though I should, because she has had everything givin to her on a silver platter all her life. She doesnt even know how to keep a job. Let alone raise a kid. But I guess she has some growing up do do real fast.

[WEBB]

i agree with deciMAS 110% and you cant pad the fall so they dont learn, but you also cant just leave your family high and dry either....maybe just use a small pillow to cushion her fall and help her on her feet but make sure she learns from this...

[Superhuman]

This I agree with, I want to tell her too bad, deal with it, and I usually would, but being my family. I just cant. Though I should, because she has had everything givin to her on a silver platter all her life. She doesnt even know how to keep a job. Let alone raise a kid. But I guess she has some growing up do do real fast.

the fact that she is close family is what complicates this situation... Tough Love is the order of the day. Let her know that she f*cked up and that she SHOULD feel guilty. I always used to be against abortion, but I guess it depends on how far along she is. Adoption is always an option. My mother, my stepfather, and my girlfriend were all adopted and they have very happy, successful lives and have very close relationships with both their biological parents and their adoptive parents.

[xero]

DeciMAS:
My opinion, but you got issues man....you may want to get professional help with them.

Carguy:
Don't screw up your life over this guy. You do this guy then you are no better than him. In fact, society will judge your action far harsher than his. More importantly, how will you judge yourself when the rage is gone? You are a soldier and part of being a soldier is self-discipline and control when others would loose it.

Focus on your sister and be around to protect and support her.

[DecimaMAS]

DeciMAS:
My opinion, but you got issues man....you may want to get professional help with them.

Carguy:
Don't screw up your life over this guy. You do this guy then you are no better than him. In fact, society will judge your action far harsher than his. More importantly, how will you judge yourself when the rage is gone? You are a soldier and part of being a soldier is self-discipline and control when others would loose it.

Focus on your sister and be around to protect and support her.

You're welcome to PM me and describe these "issues" I have in detail.

[goodcents]

If you did off the bastard, your sister would cry and probably even give evidence against you

[goodcents]

I fear decima will get banned but I do agree with most of what he says If we just run wild through life with no rules, well you end up with the crap we have now

[STYLE74]

All this talk about doing/wacking him and this and that is such nonsense, if you were going to do that the BEST thing to do would be not to even start this thread talking about it. And why the hell would you throw your life away for some piece of shit drug dealer anyway? Just get the loser to pay child support and sign papers that he is not to go near your sister or the baby or anybody in your family for that matter and be done with him.

[mavsluva]

Ok, so Im just going to get to the point, My little sister, who is 20 yr old, just got pregnant from a low life drug dealer, now, He has gotten her in trouble in the past by tellin the pigs that it was her coke and all that shit, its a long story, but he has put a lot of stress on my family because being military, Im not alowed to lay a hand on this kid. He is 22 yrs old, only a year younger than me, and I want to slit his throught. Im not trying to sound like a tough guy, but Now, he wants to leave her, and not pay anything, and she is not made of money. She has no heart to kill the kid, abortion or what ever you want to call it, and she is to irresponsible to look after herself let alone a child. Now lucky for him, he lives 12 hours away from me, or else Id have my rifle loaded already. And Id be in jail. I almost dont care if I go to jail for doing in this usless peice of afterbirth, as far as Im conserned, Id be doing the world a favor. Id like to know if anyone here has gone through anything similar and has some advice on how to let it go. Because I do understand that its her life and all that, but being family, its hard for me to do that and let it go. My fire team partner, wants to go take care of him right now, and Im having a hard time saying no. Cause I just want this guy out of my life and my sisters. Thanks guys for any advice once again. Youve all come through for me before, and I apreciate all your advice. And please, no fvcking joking on this matter,

We all make mistakes. Forgive him and be a positive support figure for your sister. That'll mean more to her than anything. All of the revenge in the world will not undo your sister's situation because as you know, two "wrongs" do not make a "right".

I would encourage you to unload that rifle. That is unless you are totally perfect.

Good luck!

[carguy_z28]

We all make mistakes. Forgive him and be a positive support figure for your sister. That'll mean more to her than anything. All of the revenge in the world will not undo your sister's situation because as you know, two "wrongs" do not make a "right".

I would encourage you to unload that rifle. That is unless you are totally perfect.

Good luck!

Well put.

[carguy_z28]

All this talk about doing/wacking him and this and that is such nonsense, if you were going to do that the BEST thing to do would be not to even start this thread talking about it. And why the hell would you throw your life away for some piece of shit drug dealer anyway? Just get the loser to pay child support and sign papers that he is not to go near your sister or the baby or anybody in your family for that matter and be done with him.

I am just saying what I feel like doing, I have a habbit of doing first, and thinking later. Which is why I wanted this off my chest. Because of you guys, I am now a lot calmer about the whole situation, still frustrated, but thinking more sencibly.

[DecimaMAS]

I fear decima will get banned but I do agree with most of what he says If we just run wild through life with no rules, well you end up with the crap we have now

It won't be the first/last time I get banned from something because I said or did what was right. But thanks for your comment.

[BG]

good beating may do this punk some good

A real good one so he gets the fuc'n point.

[Ufa]

,,,,,,,,,,,,,

[Hunter]

I think, you should put more focus on getting your sister help(therapy) to figure out why she makes such piss poor choices then killing this guy. No matter how you look at it a new life is coming into this world and you need to do what is right for that new life whether it be adoption or your sister growing up. Good luck

[carguy_z28]

Once again thanks guys, I have calmed down a lot. Dont want this guy dead anymore , besides, there is things worse than death, like him living in fear of me, even withought me doing anything to him is pretty satifying. But Im going to talk to my sister a bit, I want to help her properly, not just give her money, but make sure she does the right thing.

[DecimaMAS]

I think, you should put more focus on getting your sister help(therapy) to figure out why she makes such piss poor choices then killing this guy. No matter how you look at it a new life is coming into this world and you need to do what is right for that new life whether it be adoption or your sister growing up. Good luck

That is a very sensible reply. This poor girl needs clinical correction. Good call.

[carguy_z28]

That is a very sensible reply. This poor girl needs clinical correction. Good call.

Pills and shit like that aint the answer, she needs to grow up, thats about it. Mature some more before she has a kid.she aint a ****in retard

[Kale]

It won't be the first/last time I get banned from something because I said or did what was right. But thanks for your comment.

This has Causasian written all over it. Care to explain the flag as well ?

[goodcents]

This has Causasian written all over it. Care to explain the flag as well ?

Which flag is it? I thought it was danish?

[Information]

It won't be the first/last time I get banned from something because I said or did what was right. But thanks for your comment.

Baggerman. You are banned.

[Kärnfysikern]

Which flag is it? I thought it was danish?

nah this is the danish flag(the oldest flag in the world btw )

[goodcents]

Baggerman. You are banned.

Could people give anymore clues that they were once banned "it's not the first time I've been banned" he actually had some good points too

[Superhuman]

I did a search and I couldn't figure out which flag that was... perhaps he got a real flag from some country and changed the colors because there are many countries with tha syle of cross

[duramaxedge]

cant help the unwilling..

[Timm1704]

road trip, gun/knife, shovel, bag of lime.

you'll feel a lot better I promise

i have got to ask:

whats the lime for?

[STYLE74]

[QUOTE=Timm1704]i have got to ask:

whats the lime for?[/

QUOTE]
He watches 2 many movies...

[Chitown Raider]

Adoption is always an option. My mother, my stepfather, and my girlfriend were all adopted and they have very happy, successful lives and have very close relationships with both their biological parents and their adoptive parents.

Another good point!

[prncezzml]

Why did that guy get banned?

[carguy_z28]

No no, if your going to murder somebody, rent a wood chipper, go to a high flowing river, toss him in, there will be no prints, DNA, or anything left of him to Identify how or when he was killed. Then clean the chipper, throw in a few jugs of pure bleach, and then toss in a few trees just to make sure all the peices of the body are gone. Thats how Id do it.

[Superhuman]

No no, if your going to murder somebody, rent a wood chipper, go to a high flowing river, toss him in, there will be no prints, DNA, or anything left of him to Identify how or when he was killed. Then clean the chipper, throw in a few jugs of pure bleach, and then toss in a few trees just to make sure all the peices of the body are gone. Thats how Id do it.

or... you could just shoot them with a shotgun and make sure you pick up your shell casing. There's no way to trace it, just make sure you clean the gun and dispose of it as well as all the clothes and jewelry you wore.

[carguy_z28]

or... you could just shoot them with a shotgun and make sure you pick up your shell casing. There's no way to trace it, just make sure you clean the gun and dispose of it as well as all the clothes and jewelry you wore.

Good thing were not crazy or anything eh!?!? lmao

[Superhuman]

Good thing were not crazy or anything eh!?!? lmao

I never said I wasn't! j/k

[carguy_z28]

haha, nice!!

[audis4]

A real good one so he gets the fuc'n point.

I'm gonna have to agree.

If it were my sis, the guy would have been paying the second I found about the pregnancy.

[Chitown Raider]

I'm gonna have to agree.

If it were my sis, the guy would have been paying the second I found about the pregnancy.

True, but you got to keep in perspective his situation in the service. If it were just us rather Joe's it would be a different situation. IMO

[abstrack]

I would beat his ass out of principle for not manning up to his situation. He helped create the baby, he should be helping your sister out even if he isnt going to be with her.

I would send a mysterious friend to beat his ass.

Your sister on the other hand needs to think ahead about whatr she is going to do with a child while still being a child. She now has brought a burden upon your family's life. Not to say that a new born family member isnt a joyous thing, but for sure it is going to be a mental and financial burden for your family since they will be helping with the baby.

[Bojangles69]

Wait.. why do we hate this kid?
Because your sister couldnt keep her legs closed?
Fvck that! Drop your hate for this guy and suck it up as a lesson in not having a relationship with your sister where she respects your decisions.
This shit goes wayyy bak in history.
Shes your family bro. My family morals would validate me doing w/e would be possible to stop this situation from occurring in the first place.

At this point you have nothing to do with anything.
She fvcked up. Let her taste the wrath of her own doing, not you.

[Chitown Raider]

Wait.. why do we hate this kid?
Because your sister couldnt keep her legs closed?
Fvck that! Drop your hate for this guy and suck it up as a lesson in not having a relationship with your sister where she respects your decisions.
This shit goes wayyy bak in history.
Shes your family bro. My family morals would validate me doing w/e would be possible to stop this situation from occurring in the first place.

At this point you have nothing to do with anything.
She fvcked up. Let her taste the wrath of her own doing, not you.

Probably, because this guy is gonna be a dead beat Dad. Sure his sister is just as guilty, but I am so sick of seeing these guys knocking up women then acting like they are not responsible. Man up and take care of your shit.