I like to blindfold them. Its a good way to amplify thier feelings in the moment.
Than toy with them a bit. Tease them. Than some soft rubbing on the clit. Try and hit one of the 5 main nerve spots (read a book)
I think 90% of guys now and days just mimic the whole porno bang bang till you numb up her nerves sex.
If you want a girl to really get into it, the worst thing is to pound away aimlessly from the begining. They will NEVER orgasm.
Give a girl a REAL orgasm and you have yourself a lifetime stalker whos willing to do ANYTHING in bed, like menage(sp) threesomes etc.
Pile drivers, no offense, are the reason why woman walk around all day stressed out and emotional, because they're not really releasing all that energy during sex. Thier literally being pounded numb. Smack your forearm for 10 mins straight than rub a few fingers over it, can you imagine what your doing to something as senstive as the vagina after an hour of that shit?