really I do know what you mean
in the last 2 weeks my wife had a miscarriage(after years of thinking about another child and months of trying),my job is chaning my hours making me do a schedule,our "best friends" kind of screwed us by dissing us through this(she is preagnant also,after my wife became pregnant and some think they did it because we did) by not coming around and them with our other friends went to the beach last monday and none mentioned anything to us--behind our back stuff(how high schoolish is this) and my back which is really bad(5 compression bulged lower disks,degenerative disk and arthritis)has been real bad going down my leg to hurt in hip,knee and numb toes
so this can cause ***ression I would think but we just do our best to survive