I'm new with these forums so i dont know how to pm but It doesnt bother me to share with you. I actually started losing weight and getting sluggish for about 3 months, then my lower back started hurting. The pain progressed as the weeks went by. Then I had a node swell in my groin area and became itchy and red. At that time I went to the urologist to see what he thought. He ordered a CT scan, and it came back with nodes swollen in many places. They did a biopsy on the one in my groin and it came back positive. Do you have a fever or night sweats at night?