Are you ok with this or not?

[zodiac66]

My best friend and his girl got into it yesterday and I just want to know what you guys and gals think, be a straight shooter-no bias or lies. She will be going to a club with friends and believes it's ok to dance, in fact, she says "it's just dancing" he has a problem with it and believes it's wrong. I say it's wrong because if you truly love each other you don't do that because it's not loyal..plus why can't she just dance with the gals.....we all know most fellas have one thing on there mind, not just dancing, plus dancing/drinking can lead to something else like flirting, she may be true but still, I know I would not want to walk into a club and find some dood dancing with my girl .....so let's hear it guys and gals, thanks for your input

[gixxerboy1]

if my girl was grinding on some guy i be mad. Just dancing who cares. Also your part about alcohol and flirting can lead to other things. Well if she is going to cheat she is going to cheat. Not dancing isnt gonig to stop her. People flirt standing at the bar also. He either trust her or he doesnt. He is wrong

[G-1000]

What is the big deal?

If she is going to cheat she will do it one way or the other. She dont need to be dancing for that.

[J-Dogg]

If a girl is going to cheat, she will cheat, this is always true.

At the same time, when you are out and your girl is grinding on some guy, she is disrespecting you.

[Oki-Des]

If someone wants to do something and you tell them not to, they will simply like you a little less for not trusting them or allowing them to make their own decisions. In turn if someone is causing you stress through their actions, you have every right to feel any way you wish about it. When two people try to make things work, it is all give and take and you have to talk about it. But, whenever a guy tells his woman what she cant do, I am certain she will like him a little less than she did before.

[xavier_888888]

anytime now someone is gonna suggest to "F**k her mom" LOL

But seriously agree with J-Dogg thats disrespecting you!

[D-Unit 39]

Fvck Her Mom!!!

[inky-e]

Hahaha!My ol lady has a "property of Inky 1%er" stamped on her!No man in their right mind will ask her to dance!

[MuscleScience]

Simple solution to the problem. Make the stipulation that she can only go to the Homosexual dance clubs. I have a bunch of girlfriends that when they want to dance thats the only place they will go.

[_CrossroadS_]

When I was dating the last GF (2 years ago) We would go out together. I would dance with other girls. She would dance with other guys. I went home and F*cked her. We would be out in a public place and I would often comment on good looking girls. She would do the same about guys. We were both comfortable enough in our sexuality to agree or disagree. I went home and F*cked her. She had guy friends. I had girl friends. I went home and F*cked her. There was no jealousy, no distrust. We were honest with each other about everything. It helped that we were both relatively attractive people...as I don't see that working if one or the other is ugly.

But the fact of the matter is if the kid can't take his girlfriend flirting and grinding on some guy in a bar, he doesn't need to be with her...whether it is wrong or right, because she obviously wants to do it. Telling her not to do it will only make it worse.

[Manorexic]

fvck her... shes a slut.... if hes uncomfortable with it she should respect it.... if she doesnt shes still a slut.....

[Amorphic]

i wouldnt be comfortable with it,i dont like the idea of some guy having his hands all over my girl, that and you can never trust someones intentions.

this is why i just stay single, i dont even want to have to deal with all these crazy relationship issues/situations.

[qualityclrk1]

i wouldnt be comfortable with it,i dont like the idea of some guy having his hands all over my girl, that and you can never trust someones intentions.

this is why i just stay single, i dont even want to have to deal with all these crazy relationship issues/situations.

.x2.

[bulldawg_28]

If she can do it you can too no matter what excuse she gives like a cheating ex or some other reason. If she can go grinding on some guy at a club, then you can grind on another girl. If she can flirt, you can too.

[Schmidty]

My best friend and his girl got into it yesterday and I just want to know what you guys and gals think, be a straight shooter-no bias or lies. She will be going to a club with friends and believes it's ok to dance, in fact, she says "it's just dancing" he has a problem with it and believes it's wrong. I say it's wrong because if you truly love each other you don't do that because it's not loyal..plus why can't she just dance with the gals.....we all know most fellas have one thing on there mind, not just dancing, plus dancing/drinking can lead to something else like flirting, she may be true but still, I know I would not want to walk into a club and find some dood dancing with my girl .....so let's hear it guys and gals, thanks for your input

I had all my masfis cd stolen along w/800of my other fvckn cds. Anywho, yeah dude, if shes going to cheat she going to weather or not shes dancing w/the guy first or not. Me personally id proly freak if my gf was grinding on sum guy but if shes just out their haven fun then i dont see a problem

[zodiac66]

Good replies..thanks fellas...

That really sucks schmidty...good thing you can alot of stuff for free on the net..I know, it's not the same..you feel violated.

[thetank]

**** that shit man..if i caught my girlfriend grinding some guy i would scissor kick her in the throat, then drill her face into the nearest drywall untill i hit a stud.
nah i wouldnt, but i would be pissed and feel very disrespected.

[dupa95]

If she was happy she would not be clubbing. But what do I know just 14 years of marraige.

[J431S]

your girl is a player, if she could go clubbing w/o u and also dance w/ other fellows, she is definittely a player and is more likely to laid. i suggest u confront her about u feel on this kinda of attitude and show her what your principle is.

[Prada]

My Gfs go out with their other GFs a lot and just go dance. Girls night out. I never had a problem with it. It never bothered me because I knew they wouldn't cheat on me and were solely going out for fun. Dancing does not equate to "cheating". Albeit, picking out some random guy and grinding with him obviously would bother me but that never happened. Its all about confidence.

[Hollywood080]

My girl loves to salsa. I don't. I learned for her. I can go with her and dance with her now, but I know that I'm not anywhere as good as she is. I'll let her go dance with guys that are better dancers than me. It doesn't bug me. She's just dancing. I trust her 100.

[Puffader]

Dancing with her GF's should be ok. If she says dancing with another guy is just dancing then that's wrong. Is she saying it's ok to dance with another guy?
Just go out with the guys and go dancing...

[LawMan018]

My best friend and his girl got into it yesterday and I just want to know what you guys and gals think, be a straight shooter-no bias or lies. She will be going to a club with friends and believes it's ok to dance, in fact, she says "it's just dancing" he has a problem with it and believes it's wrong. I say it's wrong because if you truly love each other you don't do that because it's not loyal..plus why can't she just dance with the gals.....we all know most fellas have one thing on there mind, not just dancing, plus dancing/drinking can lead to something else like flirting, she may be true but still, I know I would not want to walk into a club and find some dood dancing with my girl .....so let's hear it guys and gals, thanks for your input

You know it all depends on what type of dancing? Blue's dancing, sure why not... But the shit they do in clubs now I don't consider it dancing, I consider it Kama Sutra dry humping... And in that case yeh, totally wrong...

[Kratos]

I don't care what they do, can't watch them all the time. Gotta learn to trust em'.

[firmechicano831]

leave the hoe. Usually when I dance wih a girl I rubb my dick on her ass. lol I'm sure she likes to feel that.

[J-Dogg]

Look at it like this, would you grind on a girl you would not consider sleeping with? I'm not going to be grinding on my mom or sister that's for sure and I don't think she would grind on her brother or father short of a joke.

I would dance with my sisters or mother at a wedding reception, but it would be an appropriate dance.....not grinding.

[sooners04]

It is disrespectful and she probably would not like him dancing on some girl either. I used to tell my gf that you and your girls can dance at my house with music and alcohol and everything. She had no good argument why she couldn't dance at my house with her girls instead of a club. She wouldn't like me dancing either so the way I see it is 50-50 or not at all.

[Dobie-BOY]

Yep, When Im grindin on a bich I got my half hard cock all over her sweaty body. She feels it, and loves it too. So does that girl. If hes cool with some dude rubbing his dik all over his girl, thats up to him. I would not be with a girl who would do that in the first place. Well, I take that back, I would Fuk the hell out of her, but never let myself develop feelings for her.

[DSM4Life]

I honestly would tell her to go and have a good time and leave it at that. Don't give her the attention that she is trying to get. When she says "Hey i am going out dancing with so and so" simple reply, "Ok cool cause i am going out with the guys for beers, talk to you later" then leave.

come people, play da game !

[Jfew44]

If I dont see it, I would trust her completely. But if I walked into a club and saw it with my own eyes, I would be pretty pissed off. You do need to learn to trust your woman, but trust and respect go hand in hand.

[Dangercat00]

I would be pissed off just because "dancing" basically means having a guy grind his dick against your girlfriend while feeling up her body. Unless she plans on going ballroom dancing or something, I would feel uncomfortable about it.

And yes, I know you should trust your girl, but I also know there are a lot of assholes out there who try to manipulate even the most faithful of women.

[Panzerfaust]

If she comes right out and say's that she will be dancing with other guys, she ios a piece of shit and not relationship material.

If she is just going out with the girls, sure go have fun.

[_CrossroadS_]

I would be pissed off just because "dancing" basically means having a guy grind his dick against your girlfriend while feeling up her body. Unless she plans on going ballroom dancing or something, I would feel uncomfortable about it.

And yes, I know you should trust your girl, but I also know there are a lot of assholes out there who try to manipulate even the most faithful of women.

I do ballroom dancing, and it can get pretty sexy. Plus, if a chick does these dances with you and you know what you are doing, she will want to bang you...

[scottythebody]

I've never danced with a girl that I didn't hope to bang that night

[firmechicano831]

me too scotty.