the gay thread. full of homo goodness....

[Nicotine]

I think most guys around here are comfortable with and confident in their sexuality, and can joke about it. Its the guys that take great offense to anyone even implying they are gay that actually are a little questionable.

so true....

most people i found, that took the greatest offence - were usually the most closted ones......or they out others and try to draw attention in the other direction (fag jokes, etc)....those are the ones you gotta watch for.

[DSM4Life]

so true....

most people i found, that took the greatest offence - were usually the most closted ones......or they out others and try to draw attention in the other direction (fag jokes, etc)....those are the ones you gotta watch for.

Looks like a fun filled Friday night to me

[B4ckfire479]

im a huge fan of homo goodness. doesnt mean im gay though. lol.

x2...really opens your eyes

[Beefkake31]

Ok I have a question for the gay members in this thread. Hopefully more than one of you answer, I'm just trying to figure something out.

Take this random video for example...

http://youtube.com/watch?v=PxO1hZG4JJM

Now for the completely gay man, I'm guessing this doesn't turn you on at all. But my question is, do you see these women as beautiful at least but just not giving you a hard on? Like you don't say wow look how beautiful these women are? Or do you but you just don't get a hard on from it?

[DSM4Life]

Ok I have a question for the gay members in this thread. Hopefully more than one of you answer, I'm just trying to figure something out.

Take this random video for example...

http://youtube.com/watch?v=PxO1hZG4JJM

Now for the completely gay man, I'm guessing this doesn't turn you on at all. But my question is, do you see these women as beautiful at least but just not giving you a hard on? Like you don't say wow look how beautiful these women are? Or do you but you just don't get a hard on from it?

I been with women and yes i can still see the beauty in women. I can see a girl walking down the street and say to myself "damn, shes hot." Will it give me a hard on ? prob not. I'd need physical contact to get hard.

[Beefkake31]

I been with women and yes i can still see the beauty in women. I can see a girl walking down the street and say to myself "damn, shes hot." Will it give me a hard on ? prob not. I'd need physical contact to get hard.

Ok ya that was my question, do you think most gay men see the beauty in women but just don't get sexually aroused from them?

[DSM4Life]

Ok ya that was my question, do you think most gay men see the beauty in women but just don't get sexually aroused from them?

Yes i do. Just because it doesn't arouse them doesn't mean they can't pinpoint a good looking women.

[Nicotine]

even if a woman was "all up on my junk", it wouldn't work.

if i see an amazingly beautiful woman - i can appreciate and admire her beauty for sure.

but, i think as a homo, i see personality more in women than most guys would. cuz im not tryin to bang their shit. so some women who most wouldn't say are AMAZINGLY attractive, i can find attractive as they are nice people, smart, whitty, etc...

its just...not my thing.

my question to you.

when you see a HOT guy, do you think "damn, that guy is hot!" ...not talkin about body building stuff either. even in just daily life.

[inky-e]

even if a woman was "all up on my junk", it wouldn't work.

if i see an amazingly beautiful woman - i can appreciate and admire her beauty for sure.

but, i think as a homo, i see personality more in women than most guys would. cuz im not tryin to bang their shit. so some women who most wouldn't say are AMAZINGLY attractive, i can find attractive as they are nice people, smart, whitty, etc...

its just...not my thing.

my question to you.

when you see a HOT guy, do you think "damn, that guy is hot!" ...not talkin about body building stuff either. even in just daily life.

Fair question, I don't really refer to guys as "hot", although if I'm with some women including my wife and they point out a specific guy I have no problem labeling him "handsome " or "good looking" or maybe saying he has a great physique or well built. Thats the extent that I'll go to.

[Nicotine]

my boss asked me this same question today....

he's cool and all. as are my co workers. i like my job/co workers.

they keep trying to set me up on dates with younger guys....argh.

[Carlos_E]

Now for the completely gay man, I'm guessing this doesn't turn you on at all. But my question is, do you see these women as beautiful at least but just not giving you a hard on? Like you don't say wow look how beautiful these women are? Or do you but you just don't get a hard on from it?

Nope. Not at all. Do you look through men's magazines and think how sexy and beautiful the men are but they just don't give you a hard on?

[Beefkake31]

In response to the guys, I mean I see guys that look good and I can tell most girls would let's say prefer this guy over an another or I can just tell he looks good. But that's about it, I can't really say I would get into detail about it in my mind but I would just on the surface think he is a good looking guy and would get a lot of girls.

[Misery13]

i tried that with DSM and he made me dress like a bunny and chase a carrot around his house first...it was degrading but kind of a fun way to kill 4 hours on a monday night...

thats awesome I want a bunny costume...and a clean house...no homo...

[Carlos_E]

In response to the guys, I mean I see guys that look good and I can tell most girls would let's say prefer this guy over an another or I can just tell he looks good. But that's about it, I can't really say I would get into detail about it in my mind but I would just on the surface think he is a good looking guy and would get a lot of girls.

That's the same way I see women. The words you attributed (beautiful, sexy, hot) they don't come to mind.

[xythan_shadow]

Random topic change:

Is anyone here going to the Gala Choruses Festival in Miami this year?

I don't sing, but I'm heading down there to give people I know support. Plus you know, free vacation.

[Tock]

Ok I have a question for the gay members in this thread. Hopefully more than one of you answer, I'm just trying to figure something out.

Take this random video for example...

http://youtube.com/watch?v=PxO1hZG4JJM

Now for the completely gay man, I'm guessing this doesn't turn you on at all. But my question is, do you see these women as beautiful at least but just not giving you a hard on? Like you don't say wow look how beautiful these women are? Or do you but you just don't get a hard on from it?

There are lots of opinions of what a beautiful woman looks like. The ones in that video look like a bunch of porno tarts to me, although I recognize that lots of straight men are attracted to that sort. They do absolutely nothing for me . . .

In some African tribes, some women enhance their beauty by stretching their lips to extremes, or put bands on their necks to stretch them an extra 12"-18". Chinese women used to bind their feet to make them extra small, which turned on the men. God knows what other bizarre things women do that men find attractive.

One thing that women do that I find particularly revolting, but straight men seem to like, is makeup. How you guys can get turned on by faces covered with thick layers of grimy layers of powdery paint is beyond me. I wouldn't want to be seen in public with anyone like that . . .

[DSM4Life]

One thing that women do that I find particularly revolting, but straight men seem to like, is makeup. How you guys can get turned on by faces covered with thick layers of grimy layers of powdery paint is beyond me. I wouldn't want to be seen in public with anyone like that . . .

100% Agree.

[Nicotine]

i think all people are beautiful...sounds corney - but there is someone for everyone.

when i was heavy, i found it hard to find someone. now that im build, i get hit on non stop.... huge difference. but im still me.

so. i can find women beautiful and attractive...but i wouldnt date a woman or lead them on. i couldn't stand being one of those guys who is gay, but married, and having affairs on the side with guys (LOTS of that online. 90%+)...

i'd rather just be honest with myself and others, lead a happy productive life, and take care of those i love.

[DSM4Life]

i think all people are beautiful...sounds corney - but there is someone for everyone.

when i was heavy, i found it hard to find someone. now that im build, i get hit on non stop.... huge difference. but im still me.

so. i can find women beautiful and attractive...but i wouldnt date a woman or lead them on. i couldn't stand being one of those guys who is gay, but married, and having affairs on the side with guys (LOTS of that online. 90%+)...

i'd rather just be honest with myself and others, lead a happy productive life, and take care of those i love.

awwww so touching

[RaWRZ0R!]

hmm im not gay but i would do a tranny since i already have. i like feminine features but they are a garuntee Buttsecks lol and girls taking it in the arse are like <33333

[Carlos_E]

i couldn't stand being one of those guys who is gay, but married, and having affairs on the side with guys (LOTS of that online. 90%+)...

I had the perfect date Saturday until he invited me to his house and introduced me to his wife and kids.

[Dukkit]

ahhh, homo goodness, always makes my day.

[Nicotine]

I had the perfect date Saturday until he invited me to his house and introduced me to his wife and kids.

yeah... i met someone nice many many years ago. we hung out for weeks on weekends and stuff.

then i was like "lets hang out at your place friday"

he was all "my wife will be home, cant do that"

so, that was that!

[gst528i]

I had the perfect date Saturday until he invited me to his house and introduced me to his wife and kids.

So was he gay or not? Coz that's pretty weird if he was gay and still wanted you to meet the wife n kids. Maybe he thought you guys can be friends ?

[calgarian]

So was he gay or not? Coz that's pretty weird if he was gay and still wanted you to meet the wife n kids. Maybe he thought you guys can be friends ?

Ever heared of the term Bi-sexual? The guy who swings both ways?

[DSM4Life]

[Carlos_E]

So was he gay or not? Coz that's pretty weird if he was gay and still wanted you to meet the wife n kids. Maybe he thought you guys can be friends ?

Ever heared of the term Bi-sexual? The guy who swings both ways?

Bingo!!! I think he's just realizing it. I saw him checking out women but my friends said when I wasn't looking he was looking at me the same way.

[Nicotine]

Bingo!!! I think he's just realizing it. I saw him checking out women but my friends said when I wasn't looking he was looking at me the same way.

it's cuz you are jacked!

and he's prolly gay.

[Tock]

I had the perfect date Saturday until he invited me to his house and introduced me to his wife and kids.

I used to run into lots of married guys back when I lived in Dallas' gay ghetto. For some reason Baptist church deacons and preachers took a liking to me . . .

The 2 best spots for finding a hot (gay) date in Dallas, IMHO, is at the Dallas gay church and First Baptist in downtown Dallas. The closet cases usually have their gaydar turned on, and they'll look at ya the same way alcoholic Baptists look at ya when they see you in a liquor store.
(my last ex grew up in First Baptist - Dallas, so I got to see all that nonsense firsthand)

[Carlos_E]

it's cuz you are jacked!

and he's prolly gay.

He's jacked to. On a scale of 1-10 he's a 12!

[Carlos_E]

I used to run into lots of married guys back when I lived in Dallas' gay ghetto. For some reason Baptist church deacons and preachers took a liking to me . . .

The 2 best spots for finding a hot (gay) date in Dallas, IMHO, is at the Dallas gay church and First Baptist in downtown Dallas. The closet cases usually have their gaydar turned on, and they'll look at ya the same way alcoholic Baptists look at ya when they see you in a liquor store.
(my last ex grew up in First Baptist - Dallas, so I got to see all that nonsense firsthand)

In a way I feel bad for him. I wondered if he is really unhappy and I thought he'll probably be divorced in the next 5 years. When he asked if he could visit me I didn't say no.

[RoadToRecovery]

This is the best thread EVER!!!!

[Johnny_Rotten]

Hey Carlos, DSM & Nicotine..I love you guys (No Homo)

On the real, you guys all sound like f#cken great dudes & it would be cool to hang. (& no DSM i'm not going to let you have your way with my rear end or any orifice for that matter)

[Beefkake31]

Ya I realized gay guys have a lot of personality and are funner to hang out with than straight guys lol. I'm gonna go find me some gay friends to take out with me on the weekends.

[Edgar]

Ok I have a question for the gay members in this thread. Hopefully more than one of you answer, I'm just trying to figure something out.

Take this random video for example...

http://youtube.com/watch?v=PxO1hZG4JJM

Now for the completely gay man, I'm guessing this doesn't turn you on at all. But my question is, do you see these women as beautiful at least but just not giving you a hard on? Like you don't say wow look how beautiful these women are? Or do you but you just don't get a hard on from it?

good video I like the music!!!!

heres one for our gay friends, watch out here come the muscle bears, and there after your ass!!! (not playing they really want your ass!!)




http://ca.youtube.com/watch?v=s07gu3eYZgw

[Carlos_E]

Hairy men are gross! Not my tastes.

I like em smooth and hairless... and preferably not married.

[Nicotine]

im hairy

but i keep it in check. especially in the summer, or when im cardio training a lot.

as for having gay friends. i have none.... i found it hard to relate..maybe i need body building gay friends?

i should move to calif! :P

[Dukkit]

just stopped by this thread for my daily dose of Homo Goodness.

ahhhh, feel so much better.

[xythan_shadow]

Hairy men are gross!

Lies!!! Lies and Slander!!!

Hairy muscle is simply heaven. Nothing like feeling a nice hard pec with a layer of hair on it. Wooooof!

[xythan_shadow]

im hairy

but i keep it in check. especially in the summer, or when im cardio training a lot.

as for having gay friends. i have none.... i found it hard to relate..maybe i need body building gay friends?

i should move to calif! :P

Same here man. I have my bear friends and my bodybuilding buddies and then my non-bear non-bodybuilder friends. Not a single person that is in all three.

Cali seems to be the best place.