'Official Postwhore Thread'

[DSM4Life]

*aims* steady.....steady FIRE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! wooooooooooooooo i got 'em....that'll show those damn dems

[Phate]

tell me how to figure this out

i think this sums up your whole problem, relationships are not math problems, the rules constantly change and their is no set way to go about them, YOU ARE OVERTHINKING THINGS, you need to learn to just sit back and enjoy the ride

[RuhlFreak55]

i think this sums up your whole problem, relationships are not math problems, the rules constantly change and their is no set way to go about them, YOU ARE OVERTHINKING THINGS, you need to learn to just sit back and enjoy the ride

but if i sit back there will be no ride of any sort.

[DSM4Life]

i think this sums up your whole problem, relationships are not math problems, the rules constantly change and their is no set way to go about them, YOU ARE OVERTHINKING THINGS, you need to learn to just sit back and enjoy the ride

Very true.

[DSM4Life]

but if i sit back there will be no ride of any sort.

overthinking, overthinking

[hotpink]

How can they not have wheat pitas in stock? WTF

[RuhlFreak55]

how can you win without a plan though......can't someone just give me a plan

[RangersLTW]

What up?

[hotpink]

how can you win without a plan though......can't someone just give me a plan

How long have you known her?
How much time do you spend with her?
What do you feel comfortable telling/doing around her?
And what does she feel comfortable sharing with you?

In regards to determining how close you are with her...

[DSM4Life]

how can you win without a plan though......can't someone just give me a plan

Can't have a plan with dating, like said above it changes constantly and you have to change with it.

Come take me out on a date Ruh and ill help you point out all your flaws. If everything goes well you might just even get a goodnight kiss.

[RuhlFreak55]

How long have you known her? for like 8 months i guess
How much time do you spend with her? *looks pisssed* this is a problem...no one ever lets me do anything with them
What do you feel comfortable telling/doing around her? anything....i'd tell her anything at all
And what does she feel comfortable sharing with you? shes told me some pretty personal stuff i dunno....like the V thing and her medical issues

In regards to determining how close you are with her...

i think i fail because of number 3.....i can't get close to anyone like that

[RuhlFreak55]

i'm listening to disturbed and it's making me wanna go on the warpath after this guy......svt said they look like a hot couple....this is UNACCEPTABLE

[hotpink]

i think i fail because of number 3.....i can't get close to anyone like that

why not?

[Phate]

Can't have a plan with dating, like said above it changes constantly and you have to change with it.

Come take me out on a date Ruh and ill help you point out all your flaws. If everything goes well you might just even get a goodnight kiss.

i'd take him up on the offer ruhl, even if you don't get the goodnight kiss, it should be a memorable night

not to generalize here, but i have to admit, gay/lesbian friends are the most fun, most kinda-hearted, and most open people i know

[RuhlFreak55]

why not?

i dunno....they don't ask to hang out and i'm too afraid to ask and have them say no? i really don't know....i'm an idiot screw up is the most likely thing

[DSM4Life]

i think i fail because of number 3.....i can't get close to anyone like that

dude , by your answers, your a best friend ! EWWWWWWWWWWWW

[Phate]

i'm listening to disturbed and it's making me wanna go on the warpath after this guy......svt said they look like a hot couple....this is UNACCEPTABLE

actually, since you aren't dating her and the other guy is, this is a completely acceptable statement, and your comment shows you are already wayyyy too attached

[DSM4Life]

i'd take him up on the offer ruhl, even if you don't get the goodnight kiss, it should be a memorable night

not to generalize here, but i have to admit, gay/lesbian friends are the most fun, most kinda-hearted, and most open people i know

Thank you.

[RuhlFreak55]

dude , by your answers, your a best friend ! EWWWWWWWWWWWW

her current bf is her best friend

[hotpink]

i dunno....they don't ask to hang out and i'm too afraid to ask and have them say no? i really don't know....i'm an idiot screw up is the most likely thing

they as in her and her bf? Speaking from experience here, I would tell her how you feel, and let things work out from there. Don't pursue anything until the bf is out of the picture, thats when things get ugly

[DSM4Life]

they as in her and her bf? Speaking from experience here, I would tell her how you feel, and let things work out from there. Don't pursue anything until the bf is out of the picture, thats when things get ugly

Wanted to stress that

[RuhlFreak55]

they as in her and her bf? Speaking from experience here, I would tell her how you feel, and let things work out from there. Don't pursue anything until the bf is out of the picture, thats when things get ugly

i was just speaking generally with everyone

[RuhlFreak55]

they as in her and her bf? Speaking from experience here, I would tell her how you feel, and let things work out from there. Don't pursue anything until the bf is out of the picture, thats when things get ugly

but what if he doesn't leave the picture

[DSM4Life]

but what if he doesn't leave the picture

Then give it up, end of story.

[RuhlFreak55]

Then give it up, end of story.

eff that i don't give up that easily

[DSM4Life]

eff that i don't give up that easily

Dude, you are seriously becoming a stalker.

[RuhlFreak55]

Dude, you are seriously becoming a stalker.

how's that stalker behavior?

[RuhlFreak55]

i can't understand why everything i wanna do that's romantic in nature you guys think means i'm a stalker....that's absurd

[Reed]

Lordy lordy Mr. Ruhl, are we still discussing the same lady with a bf??

[Reed]

BTW what is up all you postwhores

[RuhlFreak55]

Lordy lordy Mr. Ruhl, are we still discussing the same lady with a bf??

the very same.....i'm rather singular in my apparent obsessions

[hotpink]

i can't understand why everything i wanna do that's romantic in nature you guys think means i'm a stalker....that's absurd

well to put it bluntly...if you tell her how you feel and he's still in the picture...then she doesnt want to be with you.

[RuhlFreak55]

i'm showering

[hotpink]

I hope my pita hurries up, my tummy is eating itself

[RuhlFreak55]

well to put it bluntly...if you tell her how you feel and he's still in the picture...then she doesnt want to be with you.

*sigh* i was gonna try to be positive this week

[DSM4Life]

*sigh* i was gonna try to be positive this week

You dont need a girl to be happy man, trust me

But for real, i have always said, If you cant be happy by yourself then you cant be happy with someone else.

Good luck.

[Reed]

the very same.....i'm rather singular in my apparent obsessions

Ruhl people have been telling the same thing over and over. She may not want to be with you because of the obsession/stalker which can be scary for a young lady. You need to move on but at the same time she'll still be around so there may chance of you all to get together later on. But the constant stalker behavior will push her even further away.

[hotpink]

You dont need a girl to be happy man, trust me

But for real, i have always said, If you cant be happy by yourself then you cant be happy with someone else.

Good luck.

I completely support that 100%. So true

[Reed]

*sigh* i was gonna try to be positive this week

No lets be positive this week, we talked about this yesterday. Remember the suggestion I made??? We can talk about plenty of other things in this world besides one girl. We have the Olympia coming up and what about that diet, did you ever get that fixed???

[Reed]

You dont need a girl to be happy man, trust me

But for real, i have always said, If you cant be happy by yourself then you cant be happy with someone else.

Good luck.

This is exactly what I was telling you the other night and they are right.