there is nothing wrong with having a different opinion. but have a reason for it. adam and eve or steve in not a reason. Its a lame saying.
about what is pleasurable. first what does it matter? There are plenty of shit straight people do that doesn't seem pleasurable to me. And im sure a bj probably feels the same no matter what sex is giving it.
About not wanting your kids to see it. Again there are lots of things i wouldnt want my kids to see be again what does that matter. also if 2 gays are kissing your kids are going to be less damaged seeing it if the guys aren't married? Make no sense to me.