Gay Marriage: support or oppose?

[smokethedays]

DSM how about you write us a scenario here for thes dilemma:

A child who has been adopted by 2 gay ppl, growns up until he starts to understand what sexual relations are.
Then from TV, internet, school mates....etc he learns more about man/woman relationship. now lets say the kid is around 8-9 years old.

Now you DSM is one of the parents, and the kid comes to you and asks you, why don't
i have a mom? what is your answer?

[Bojangles69]

DSM how about you write us a scenario here for thes dilemma:

A child who has been adopted by 2 gay ppl, growns up until he starts to understand what sexual relations are.
Then from TV, internet, school mates....etc he learns more about man/woman relationship. now lets say the kid is around 8-9 years old.

Now you DSM is one of the parents, and the kid comes to you and asks you, why don't
i have a mom? what is your answer?

maybe "oh shit"

[gixxerboy1]

DSM how about you write us a scenario here for thes dilemma:

A child who has been adopted by 2 gay ppl, growns up until he starts to understand what sexual relations are.
Then from TV, internet, school mates....etc he learns more about man/woman relationship. now lets say the kid is around 8-9 years old.

Now you DSM is one of the parents, and the kid comes to you and asks you, why don't
i have a mom? what is your answer?

I'm asking honestly. Your whole argument seems to be about children of gays now. Is that the reason you think they shouldn't marry? If gays couldnt adopt would you be for allowing gay marriage? Do you think gays should get the other rights i listed that straight couple have?

[smokethedays]

I'm asking honestly. Your whole argument seems to be about children of gays now. Is that the reason you think they shouldn't marry? If gays couldnt adopt would you be for allowing gay marriage? Do you think gays should get the other rights i listed that straight couple have?

That is all i said, I don't care if two men wants to fvck each other or two women want to have a women orgy.
I never argued about their rights to 'marry' for the sole reason of marriage, BUT what is the point except financial befetis and govt. programs for married ppl? if that is the reason, then letthem have and they will ask for a ban on gay marriage themselves.

But DSM took it personal and started telling me to research and im looking stupid and uneducated. Very unexpected form a gay guy to do that juast for sayin' my opinion.

[Bojangles69]

That is all i said, I don't care if two men wants to fvck each other or two women want to have a women orgy.
I never argued about their rights to 'marry' for the sole reason of marriage, BUT what is the point except financial befetis and govt. programs for married ppl? if that is the reason, then letthem have and they will ask for a ban on gay marriage themselves.

But DSM took it personal and started telling me to research and im looking stupid and uneducated. Very unexpected form a gay guy to do that juast for sayin' my opinion.

edit: I'm just fueling the fire. 4get it

[gixxerboy1]

DSM how about you write us a scenario here for thes dilemma:

A child who has been adopted by 2 gay ppl, growns up until he starts to understand what sexual relations are.
Then from TV, internet, school mates....etc he learns more about man/woman relationship. now lets say the kid is around 8-9 years old.

Now you DSM is one of the parents, and the kid comes to you and asks you, why don't
i have a mom? what is your answer?

What does the straight parent say to the kid if they are a single parent? Or they are divorced and now have a step dad too. There are alot of imperfect senerio's out there.

[Bojangles69]

What does the straight parent say to the kid if they are a single parent? Or they are divorced and now have a step dad too. There are alot of imperfect senerio's out there.

Yeh good point, I still see divorce as a border line socially acceptable behavoir. It will affect a child, but when you find out you have 2 dads society will rip that childs reality apart.

Thats just my opinion.
Ok I have to get out of this thread now.

Everyone makes great points, well those at least who are debating and no so much arguing.

[smokethedays]

What does the straight parent say to the kid if they are a single parent? Or they are divorced and now have a step dad too. There are alot of imperfect senerio's out there.

i think single parents or step parent is a lot more popular then complete families to begin with.

You are in denial if you say that it won't be a problem. you know it is.

Prents have a hard time tryin to explain to children why candy is bad, or why too much TV is bad, how do you think you can explain such EXTREMLEY sensitive issue to a CHILD for god's sake. a freakin' child.

[gixxerboy1]

i think single parents or step parent is a lot more popular then complete families to begin with.

You are in denial if you say that it won't be a problem. you know it is.

Prents have a hard time tryin to explain to children why candy is bad, or why too much TV is bad, how do you think you can explain such EXTREMLEY sensitive issue to a CHILD for god's sake. a freakin' child.

I agree that it would be some kind of an issue.
But i'm sure it was for divorced or single parent kids in the 70 and 80's. Things change like you said. Now those 2 issues aren't really and issue anymore. 10-15 years from now hopefully gays will be more accepted and it wont be an issue either.

also kids dont know what a sensitive issue is? Parents teach that. A child is a blank slate.

[DSM4Life]

DSM how about you write us a scenario here for thes dilemma:

A child who has been adopted by 2 gay ppl, growns up until he starts to understand what sexual relations are.
Then from TV, internet, school mates....etc he learns more about man/woman relationship. now lets say the kid is around 8-9 years old.

Now you DSM is one of the parents, and the kid comes to you and asks you, why don't
i have a mom? what is your answer?

First i would explain what a family is to him:

(off the top of my head)
Two loving/caring PEOPLE looking out for the welfare of their child/children.

They look out for each other and help each other out no matter what. And also that they can always come talk to each other without ever feeling ashamed or embarrassed.

Then explain that are different types of families. Some have 2 fathers, two mothers or one of each. What matters the most is that you have two people who love you and will always love you.

It just so happen that daddy (me) fell in love with your other father. After years of being together we wanted a child so we got you. And we couldn't have been blessed with a better child.

Is there anything else that confuses you ? or that you are afraid to tell me ? Don't worry because nothing that you say will ever make me love you less.

If not, lets go get some ice cream !

[xlxBigSexyxlx]

[smokethedays]

First i would explain what a family is to him:

(off the top of my head)
Two loving/caring PEOPLE looking out for the welfare of their child/children.

They look out for each other and help each other out no matter what. And also that they can always come talk to each other without ever feeling ashamed or embarrassed.

Then explain that are different types of families. Some have 2 fathers, two mothers or one of each. What matters the most is that you have two people who love you and will always love you.

But the school and the TV teaches a family is a mom, dad, kids ,and a pet.

It just so happen that daddy (me) fell in love with your other father. After years of being together we wanted a child so we got you. And we couldn't have been blessed with a better child.
Again school sex ed class teaches that children come about from sexual realtionship between a male and a female.

GOT YOU?!!! are you fvckin' serious? what is he, a chips bag? Got him how?

Is there anything else that confuses you ? or that you are afraid to tell me ? Don't worry because nothing that you say will ever make me love you less.

If not, lets go get some ice cream !

As a said you are a living example for the failure of 2 gay ppl raising a NORMAL child that is not theirs to begin with.
On top of his fvcked life being an orphan and never see his real pearents, now he has to make up his mind who is correct, the school and scoeity's teachings or his daddy but not real daddy sleeping with his other daddy.
FVCK I got confused.

[Rugger02]

As a said you are a living example for the failure of 2 gay ppl raising a NORMAL child that is not theirs to begin with.
On top of his fvcked life being an orphan and never see his real pearents, now he has to make up his mind who is correct, the school and scoeity's teachings or his daddy but not real daddy sleeping with his other daddy.
FVCK I got confused.

Personally I think you should stop posting in this thread. No reason to get steamed and you already made your opinion extremely clear. Mission accomplished, move on.

[DSM4Life]

As a said you are a living example for the failure of 2 gay ppl raising a NORMAL child that is not theirs to begin with.

Your a living failure for change.


On top of his fvcked life being an orphan and never see his real pearents, now he has to make up his mind who is correct, the school and scoeity's teachings or his daddy but not real daddy sleeping with his other daddy.
FVCK I got confused.

In the end , i'll agree with you. I will instead go get a dog and a nice plant that smells good. Oh and the 500K kids in foster care can rot in hell.

good night all and god bless (Not that there is a god : have fun with that one)

[gixxerboy1]

In the end , i'll agree with you. I will instead go get a dog and a nice plant that smells good. Oh and the 500K kids in foster care can rot in hell.

good night all and god bless (Not that there is a god : have fun with that one)

You know my dog is going to make fun or your dog because it has a rainbow collar

good night buddy

[smokethedays]

In the end , i'll agree with you. I will instead go get a dog and a nice plant that smells good. Oh and the 500K kids in foster care can rot in hell.

good night all and god bless (Not that there is a god : have fun with that one)

Oh no don't let them rott in hell, just give them to a gay prents to use them as a tool to strengthen their social image and say we are parents as well. or use them as a tool to benefit off the govt programs for parents. or maybe just to be kool.

Welcome to the begining of the end of the Roman Empire, I meant the American Empire.

[Carlos_E]

Oh no don't let them rott in hell, just give them to a gay prents to use them as a tool to strengthen their social image and say we are parents as well. or use them as a tool to benefit off the govt programs for parents. or maybe just to be kool.

Welcome to the begining of the end of the Roman Empire, I meant the American Empire.

You don't know when to fuckin' quit.

[KingTenderloin]

In the end , i'll agree with you. I will instead go get a dog and a nice plant that smells good. Oh and the 500K kids in foster care can rot in hell.

good night all and god bless (Not that there is a god : have fun with that one)

He says they can rot in hell in one sentence and that there is no God in the next sentence

[smokethedays]

He says they can rot in hell in one sentence and that there is no God in the next sentence

what a hypocrite.