I probably should have posted my story right off the bat. Pretty much I was hooking up with this chick for a few weeks, things were going very well. I told her how committed I was to the gym and how strict my diet was, got that out right away. She claimed that it was perfectly fine with her. We were hanging out a lot, getting to know each other and things were going perfectly. THEN..I get a call the other night at like 1am and it was her asking me to go out to the bar with her. I was pretty much sleeping and absolutely didnt wanna go but i figured eff it, you just gotta do shit you do not wanna do sometimes. She picks me up, we're at the bar having a few drinks and then she drops this line "let's split up for a little bit, ill go over there and you go there." WTF..10 minutes later she walks up " I think I have feelings for so and so but i'm not sure....sorry"
That was another big WTF. So to top it off, she appoaches me telling me that she wants to go, as we walk out the door she grabs this asshole she likes and he leaves with us. Most awkward car ride home of my entire life.
So now, I see them together all the time on campus and think to myself WTF happened. So there is my story pertaining to why I started this thread.
Never did I say he was d-bag because of his non-lifting. He's a d-bag because of his motivation in life, drinking every single night and has no priorities. Him being a twig just adds fuel to the fire.
which loser would you rather have? one that is a druggy/alcoholic or one that spends his time in the gym doing something to improve his fitness?
i would choose the fitness route.
and yes, i understand too. I don't understand how some beautiful women with a lot going for them date guys that don't have a job, mooch off of them, treat them like shit and are ugly as hell. I'm sorry, looks play a part in it. No matter what someone says physical attraction plays a big part in attraction between 2 people.
it's disheartening. I'm a well educated guy and i would say i'm not bad looking. I have tons of male and female friends that all like being around me and are close friends therefore i would assume my personality is ok, yet it's impossible for me to get a date with someone. Now on the other hand these guys that are dirty, don't have a life and just don't care get all these hot chicks that have careers and good lives. wtf
Depends. if he is a person who just drinks socially on the weekend its not a big deal. It doesnt occupy his life. But your gy mand diet is 7 days a week and does take priority.
Also everyone finds different things attractive. Just because you think muscle are more attractive doesn't mean ever girl does. Just look at the female pic thread we post here. How many guys hate fake boobs some love them. some love skinny girls some like them with some meat on their bones. just because you have an idea what male should look like. doesn't mean all women agree
I used to care. Buy i learnt that true worthy girls are a rarity. So everytime i see that i think ok, you're not my type girl. A girl that hangs with a worthess undignified scumbag is as worthess, undignified and scumbag as him. Thats not what i want in my life so i don't give a shit. To me, both, they are just a fact that prove that there is too much oxygen in this planet.
wow, you're in left field.
we aren't talking about one specific person. This is a theoretical situation. I've known it to be an alcoholic or abuser or scumbag depending on the situation through my female friends. That is why i said that. I see it a lot and of course get introduced to this lowlife and it's like "WTF" or it's a person who you know because someone else knows him.
So basically the answer to your question would be, I know he's an alcoholic because I know who the person is. I'm not talking about just seeing some chick on the street with a scrawny guy and assuming the guy is a nothing. I'm talking about situations where you know the history of said boyfriend in question.
people care to ****ing much.
be yourself and live life.
plus, the skinny d bag is going to be a doctor. lol
That's cos them guys don't give a **** if a women looks at them or not. And treat them like shit. Women are a weird beast. They seem to enjoy being treated like shit and giving them no respect. And the worst thing you can do is fall into the "friendship" thing with a women, you might aswell cut your cock off it shall never be tapping that ass ever.
Man just don't mind her and do what War4BTT said ride all her friends they hate that. I mean really hate and it's hilarious.
They really are bizarre creatures, sucks that a large majority of them are cold-hearted wh0res.
If i see an ex with any guy skinny or fat i just laugh to myself and think "hes stirring my porridge hahahah"
Life is too short to be bitter.
any one who thinks or says that to ANYONE is a straight b i t ch that is small as hell.They don't relize that working out and getting big is the most fun to us we can have.Plus they just say that bc they prop tried to get big but couldn't(bad diet, not commitment,improper lifting) and is actually jealous, its just like a really fat person making fun of skinny kids hes really jealous.
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