1. Do you think taking anavar would help me? NO

2. What are the side effects? Same as most AAS, though less likely
3. What else would you recommend that might be better for me? Diet and MORE EXERCISE!
Sounds like you are looking for a quick fix bro. You need to dedicate more time and effort before thinking of using AAS.

Try these links, as diet is where is all starts...

Diet Help
http://forums.steroid.com/showthread.php?t=355744

Diet Section
http://forums.steroid.com/forumdisplay.php?f=6

Choosing Diets
http://www.steroid.com/diet.php