I think i might have ****ed up big time........
the last guy i was with said some ****ed up shit after the fact... hiv.
omg... this is ****ed up man...
what are the chances of just 1 time?...
i'm seriously crying and scared right now......
were you using a condom?
I hope you're not joking about something like this...
How long can HIV go before it shows up on a test?
If I were you, I'd be doing some serious googling. I hope you're alright.
PLEASE say that's not a serious post?
if it is - relax.
did you use a rubber?
exchange fluids?
personally, i'd beat the shit outta him - if i was in that situation... disclosure should be long before anything.
3-12 months to be detected...
i dont see it as a man/woman thing...
i couldn't ever date someone that was even a bit effeminate.... and, it's not that i hate the queens, it's just not my thing.
im a guy, who likes MEN.....
i understand that question..i think that applies more to lesbians.... there's usually a HOT lipstick dyke, then a bulldyke... :P
yeh this is a big ****ing joke are you kidding me...
i can't sleep now so I just took some valium and i'm drinking vodka....
no i wasn't using a condom i was being stupid and we were both messed up... i got so many thoughts and feelings running right now i don't know... i'm gonna get tested on my day off and confront him, he said he was intimidated by me thats why he told me by phone. i wanna hurt him if this is the deal i just need to go now and be by myself and sleep this is to much i cant stop crying thinking about this...
well, if he didnt disclose before you had sex with him - that's a HUGE criminal offence on his part. In canada, there has been a few cases very recently where a person didnt disclose, and now they are in jail...
get to your dr in the am. don't wait for your day off.....
did you exchange fluids?.... or withdraw before hand?
i shot my load in him but he did not in me
so what does that mean?
well, some believe the "top" is at less risk.....
at least he didn't shoot in you!
go see your dr first thing in the am.
drinking and taking meds will just make your head/mind worse, and also make you more anxious....
i know it's tough to do - but lay down, get some rest. eat something.
call your dr first thing, get in to see him. i know work is important, but talking to your dr is very very important.
if he is infact hiv positive, you need to report this to the health clinic and - in canada we have the "center for disease control". if you have one where you are, report it to them immediately. give all the info you know, and tell them he didn't disclose untill afterwards.
it's a criminal offence!
He doesn't need to shoot in you to infect you. His pre-cum alone can transmit HIV/AIDS. It normally takes about 3 months for your body to build defenses for HIV which then they can easily detect the disease. I would get tested every 3 months for the year if i were you just to be safe.
Most centers are quick anonymous, check for a local test center here:
http://www.hivtest.org/index.cfm
first time here. Is this real?
I agree w Nicotine on everything. Talk to a doctor right away and report this guy. He used you to the point of putting your life in jeopardy. Intimidation is not an excuse after he had sex with you.
I know easier said than done, but he's also right about using drugs and alcohol to cope with the situation. If you can, try and ease up a little.
true that
hey dsm, find me one like:
OR
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mmmmm, daddies.
They call me "hell"
They call me "Stacey"
They call me "her"
They call me "Jane"
That's not my name
That's not my name
That's not my name
That's not my name
This F'in page wont end !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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