If your girlfriend was saying this to another guy what would you do?

[notus]

Today at 5:04pm her
so should my top be on or off when i pick you up for happy hour?...my jeep top of course



Today at 5:29pmhim
On, at first. I can help you take it off after we have a few drinks. I've been practicing, so I've gotten pretty good at it. Driving, that is. Is yours a manual or automatic?
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Today at 5:33pmher
Hello of course driving....Its an automatic...so you don't have to work as hard...driving that is
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Today at 5:46pmhim
That's OK. I don't mind the work. We both get where we need to go, so I suppose if it gets us there faster and easier, I'm all for it.
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Today at 5:47pmher
I can see your point. We will see how fast and then maybe slow it can go...the jeep of course.

Today at 5:49pmhim
Well I'm not doing anything tonight except my tantric stretching exercises and vitamin e shots. Do you like Blue Moon?
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Today at 5:52pmher
Awesome....you should post a picture while you exercise yes i do. so did you ever say yo in court as promised?



Today at 5:55pmhim
Several times. Each time your girls said it didn't count, and put up more rules. Chicks and their rules-sheesh! Blue Moon with an orange slice? Cause I know a place....


Today at 6:07pmhim
Always open...
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Today at 6:10pmher
sounds like a good place....we should go sometime......

[*RAGE*]

If you have to ask dumb her ass.....

[Brown Ninja]

OJ both of them

[Jfew44]

Dump her. How did you come across this information?

[RA]

Just walk away..its not worth anymore than that bro. Sluts are a dime a dozen...

[notus]

we gave each other our facebook passwords because we were having trust issues

[Jfew44]

Well that solved it lol. But really, it may just be innocent flirting and I don't know how serious you two are, but personally I'm not one to put up with that kind of stuff. Too many other women out there

[Panzerfaust]

Immature and childish, dump the fukin kunt!

[RA]

LOL, kind of what I was trying to say but with a lil more tact.

Immature and childish, dump the fukin kunt!

[jbm]

[firmechicano831]

what a hoe, f.uck her hard and cumm in her mouth and just walk away without saying a word. When she runs after u just say, ur just a hoe and I'm off to my next one.

[notus]

it hurts.... we were talking marriage

[*RAGE*]

it hurts.... we were talking marriage

I am sure it does bro, but it is going to hurt more later....

[Brown Ninja]

arm bar the whore. Seriously

[RA]

Really sorry to hear that bro...you do need to just walk away...no talking or trying to get back at her. There are some good ones out there...um, Im looking too...lol but getting the hell out of that beats any alternative.

it hurts.... we were talking marriage

[eatrainrest]

ok my theory is for everytime you caught her she has done it 3x without you finding out. lol.. but seriously if somebody breaks my trust like that than your out the front door!.. maybe the back door which ever one is close to my leg kicking your face out the door.

[firmechicano831]

bro, I understand it hurts but at least be happy it happend now and not when u were married.

[jbm]

^^ Agreed!

[eatrainrest]

not worth it bro, think about how messy it would be if this happened during marriage and there was an affair? not to put you in misery mode, actually trying to just do the opposite! at least you didnt fcuck up, but dont be the sucker

[T_Own]

i wouldn't take that too well. the innuendo is quite prominent lol

[firmechicano831]

have u talked to her about it? what did she have to say? I understand it was flurting but it was to see how far each one could go.

[RA]

It doesnt matter. If your with someone you dont do that. Especially if your talking marriage. Cut her loose.

have u talked to her about it? what did she have to say? I understand it was flurting but it was to see how far each one could go.

[Immortal Soldier]

What does this guy have that you don't go bro? No homo but from your default picture you got a body bitches would die for so why is she all interested in that ****ing loser who does tantric streching?

Best thing you can do is start talking to this other girl and when you dump this girl make sure you have started hanging out with the other.

[eatrainrest]

i hope you didnt burn your bridges

[firmechicano831]

bro, if she calls don't pick up, if she text don't reply. **** the hoe, it will hurt her more knowing u don't care about her at all then if u talk to her about it.

[jbm]

it hurts.... we were talking marriage

If I were you I'll just end our relationship, I know it's really hard but that's the right thing bro!

[eatrainrest]

i think the better question to ask yourself is do you truly believe in second chances if somebody would betray you? if your having trust issues then its already on a whole diff level. if you can answer yes, then maybe consider it. if you can full heartedly answer know cut the ties off my friend and take that diesl body (no homo) to the shore and start going out wiht the boys more often creepin on some women lol

[Bojangles69]

I honestly 100% thought this thread was a joke till I read the OPs second post and realized it wasn't.

The problem you face now is what decision qualifies as overkill and what decision qualifies you as a doormat.
*IF* you go communicate with her theres a good chance she'll minimize it as harmless texting with no intention.

Thats lovely, but simple fact is people who "talk marraige" (and are serious) DO NOT go off and talk taking shirts off and drinking Blue Moons (which is the worst fvckn beer ever made I'd lose her on that alone).

This is what I recommend.
Don't make a huge deal about it.

But absolutely make her feel an emotional disconnect. If you pull back and disconnect you can test how connected she was in the first place.

And I hate fvckn cliches but this is def one of those "if you love something let it go and it doesn't come back it never was yours" situations.
Don't throw any labels on what you do like if she asks "are you breaking up with me" just say "no, I really just need time by myself to think about things".

Women hate that shit, but she caused it. Just put it this way.
Imagine your on doctor phil and he read this text message to the audience and asked them to raise their hands if they thought it was right or not.

I guarantee most if not all would aggree that only a pushover would tolerate shit like that. And when you tolerate low quality behavoir you create a low quality life for yourself. Time to reevaluate some things, not just her but yourself. Because when things like this happen theres usually things before that happened that you may have swept under the carpet cause of your own insecurities.

[eatrainrest]

I honestly 100% thought this thread was a joke till I read the OPs second post and realized it wasn't.

The problem you face now is what decision qualifies as overkill and what decision qualifies you as a doormat.
*IF* you go communicate with her theres a good chance she'll minimize it as harmless texting with no intention.

Thats lovely, but simple fact is people who "talk marraige" (and are serious) DO NOT go off and talk taking shirts off and drinking Blue Moons (which is the worst fvckn beer ever made I'd lose her on that alone).

This is what I recommend.
Don't make a huge deal about it.

But absolutely make her feel an emotional disconnect. If you pull back and disconnect you can test how connected she was in the first place.

And I hate fvckn cliches but this is def one of those "if you love something let it go and it doesn't come back it never was yours" situations.
Don't throw any labels on what you do like if she asks "are you breaking up with me" just say "no, I really just need time by myself to think about things".

Women hate that shit, but she caused it. Just put it this way.
Imagine your on doctor phil and he read this text message to the audience and asked them to raise their hands if they thought it was not right.

I guarantee most if not all would aggree that only a pushover would tolerate shit like that. Time to reevaluate some things, not just her but yourself. Because when things like this happen theres usually things before that happened that you may have swept under the carpet cause of your own insecurities.


I'll be the first to say the intention is THERE

damn dude how much dr. phil do you watch? lol

[firmechicano831]

damn dude how much dr. phil do you watch? lol

But I liked what he had to say.

[eatrainrest]

no doubt great approach might bookmark that one lol

[mho]

Today at 5:04pm her
so should my top be on or off when i pick you up for happy hour?...my jeep top of course



Today at 5:29pmhim
On, at first. I can help you take it off after we have a few drinks. I've been practicing, so I've gotten pretty good at it. Driving, that is. Is yours a manual or automatic?
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Today at 5:33pmher
Hello of course driving....Its an automatic...so you don't have to work as hard...driving that is
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Today at 5:46pmhim
That's OK. I don't mind the work. We both get where we need to go, so I suppose if it gets us there faster and easier, I'm all for it.
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Today at 5:47pmher
I can see your point. We will see how fast and then maybe slow it can go...the jeep of course.

Today at 5:49pmhim
Well I'm not doing anything tonight except my tantric stretching exercises and vitamin e shots. Do you like Blue Moon?
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Today at 5:52pmher
Awesome....you should post a picture while you exercise yes i do. so did you ever say yo in court as promised?



Today at 5:55pmhim
Several times. Each time your girls said it didn't count, and put up more rules. Chicks and their rules-sheesh! Blue Moon with an orange slice? Cause I know a place....


Today at 6:07pmhim
Always open...
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Today at 6:10pmher
sounds like a good place....we should go sometime......

This really sucks. Dump her ass. If you were talking about marriage and she's already pulling this shit it's only going to get worse. Again I'm really sorry you have to go through this bro.

Deep six that bitch.

[notus]

i never even believed in true love or any of that shit... im 28 and this is the first time i have ever loved a woman.... I just want to do the right thing

[firmechicano831]

I want to know what Notus is going to do about this issue?

[peachfuzz]

damn dude how much dr. phil do you watch? lol

haha thats what i am saying. i think Bojangles = Oprah

but good advice none the less

[notus]

I want to know what Notus is going to do about this issue?

i will keep you informed

[firmechicano831]

i never even believed in true love or any of that shit... im 28 and this is the first time i have ever loved a woman.... I just want to do the right thing

Whats the right thing in ur opinion? remember that theres like 5 women for ever guy out there. Pus.sy is high in supply at this point. You can find ur self a better girl if you look hard enought that will love u and respect u.

[eatrainrest]

i think you got enough, the rest is up to you goodluck bro its fukn tough im sure most of us here can attest to that!

[Bojangles69]

damn dude how much dr. phil do you watch? lol

Dude like 3 days ago they did a whole half hour on the benefits of testosterone.
Dr. Phil is the man.. well not really but sometimes he does have good shows.

And judge judy too, shes a total gilf.

[Bojangles69]

i will keep you informed

And one reminder.

DO NOT fall victim to the saying "communication is key".

Because a lot of times communication can turn into a mutual aggreement to ignore problems.
And especially when you're in a relationship you can have 30 people telling you to get the fvck out and your partner telling you to stay and so often people will stay.

DO NOT BE AFRAID of being emotionally fvcked up from a break up, BE AFRAID of not having the courage to stand up for yourself and what you think is right.
And you will always doubt yourself to a degree, but don't let doubt get the best of you either.
Stay strong and positive and try talking to people other then her.