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  1. 07-12-2009, 07:14 PM #1
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    Who is a bigger slob? you....or the girlfried/wife???

    going to assume, on this board, probably most of you are pretty tidy, driven individuals. There are probably a few slobs as well

    I work a lot in the summer, I pay all the bills, phones, cable, internet, gas, electric, insurance. I paid the house off, vehicles are paid off, but I insure them through my company, so it's free.

    Just had a talk with the girl friend today, I don't mind doing everything I do, but I come home on lunch break, I don't want to have to load the dish washer, vacuum the carpets and do laundry.

    Hoping the message gets across! The girl spends so much time looking pretty, but she just does not seem to care if she is surrounded by filth and clutter.

    Hope I'm not being too finicky or picky, I don't need perfection, just "picked up" works for me. No sink full of dishes and cereal bowls on the end tables works!
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    Slaughter her. Or polish maids are like .50cents a week.
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    me and my wife have been fighting about this all week. cuz she is a slob
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    My fuvking kids are slobs.....

    I hate dirt and mess as bad as I hate monkey fuvkers....
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    my dogs are slobs...they tear my house apart when I leave
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    My wife is a ****ing neat freak, Its like I am back in basic trainin every damn day.Me I try and god knows I try to keep it clean but I am a guy slob by nature.
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    Im a neat freak. My wife is doiing awsome at helping keep everything picked up now.

    Got the kids trained too
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  10. 07-12-2009, 10:56 PM #10
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    Quote Originally Posted by prone2rage View Post
    My fuvking kids are slobs.....

    I hate dirt and mess as bad as I hate monkey fuvkers....
    Honestly that is my concern.

    If we ever get married, have kids.........who is going to take care of, pick up after and help raise the kids?

    I can pick up after her for now, support her for now but down the road, I'll want some kids and will need a partner to help.
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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Dogg View Post
    Honestly that is my concern.

    If we ever get married, have kids.........who is going to take care of, pick up after and help raise the kids?

    I can pick up after her for now, support her for now but down the road, I'll want some kids and will need a partner to help.
    If she doesn't do it now, she's not going to do it when she is stressed out from having kids. Some people are just lazy.
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    I am a neat freak - my two room-mates on the other hand... they do OK. I pretty much wash all the dishes in the house and take over the kitchen. Hell, I should just move my room there.
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    My girlfriend does everything, i pay all the bills and she makes sure the house is clean.. when the maid isnt in.
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    I just think if the woman isn't working then the house should be clean and dinner should be cooked, I guess that's just how I was raised but I've always worked and kept the house clean and made the dinner...superwoman!
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    My mom raised us 6 kids, worked as a substitute teacher and kept the house clean. Jmo that a woman should only work A) if she wants to or B) if she has to cause of finicial reasons. Its the husbands job to provide for his family but that was just the way I was raised.
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    I hate cleaning but I live alone until big gets here...then I'll still be cleaning....lol
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  20. 07-13-2009, 12:43 PM #20
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    Quote Originally Posted by KatsMeow View Post
    I just think if the woman isn't working then the house should be clean and dinner should be cooked, I guess that's just how I was raised but I've always worked and kept the house clean and made the dinner...superwoman!
    I hate to sound old fastioned, but I agree with you.

    There are certain things that fall under my responsibilty I feel. I do make a lot more money, so I don't mind paying the bills.

    The fridge took a crap 3 weeks ago, and I feel because a fridge weighs 300lbs, it's under my umbrella of responsibilities to buy, and bring a new one in. I just replaced the windows (tax credit yay!), I just remodeled the bathroom late last winter, keep the drive and side walks clear of snow in the winter. Those are all jobs a woman could do, but it's easier for me to do, than a 120lb girl who is just not mechanically or structurally inclined.

    A girl, can easily clean better or at least just as good as me.

    I hope that does not make me sound like I'm trying to oppress women and keep them in the kitchen or anything. I just feel there are duties that suit each gender better.
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    Im a Neat freak, Havent met a women yet that can clean like me.. Got a touch of ocd I guess.
    I need everything dusted, Vaccummed and cleaned. I hate a dirty house.
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    Dude you need to say something, id be pi**ed off. I have always be brought up to my mother cooking cleaning and taking care of the house and working hours which suite her best. While my dad would work his bones into the ground.

    The world today puts woman on the same plate as a man and i can understand there ideas but when a man is working and bringing in the $$$ its up to the woman to provide a cooked meal and clean living area.

    Or you could just get a cleaner and save yourself an argument haha
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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Dogg View Post
    going to assume, on this board, probably most of you are pretty tidy, driven individuals. There are probably a few slobs as well

    I work a lot in the summer, I pay all the bills, phones, cable, internet, gas, electric, insurance. I paid the house off, vehicles are paid off, but I insure them through my company, so it's free.

    Just had a talk with the girl friend today, I don't mind doing everything I do, but I come home on lunch break, I don't want to have to load the dish washer, vacuum the carpets and do laundry.

    Hoping the message gets across! The girl spends so much time looking pretty, but she just does not seem to care if she is surrounded by filth and clutter.

    Hope I'm not being too finicky or picky, I don't need perfection, just "picked up" works for me. No sink full of dishes and cereal bowls on the end tables works!
    what was her home like when growing up, and how did she live when you met?

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    I hate cleaning but I live alone until big gets here...then I'll still be cleaning....lol
    oh I'll be helping with the cleaning
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    The more posts I read the more I cant stand my girl.... I think I am going to tie her up , drive her out to the middle of no where and leaver her for dead! Slop, letting herself go no motivation and to be honest after 3 years of banging her, I must say.. I have had enough!! I think I just want to freelance from now on
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    Quote Originally Posted by J-Dogg View Post
    I hate to sound old fastioned, but I agree with you.

    There are certain things that fall under my responsibilty I feel. I do make a lot more money, so I don't mind paying the bills.

    The fridge took a crap 3 weeks ago, and I feel because a fridge weighs 300lbs, it's under my umbrella of responsibilities to buy, and bring a new one in. I just replaced the windows (tax credit yay!), I just remodeled the bathroom late last winter, keep the drive and side walks clear of snow in the winter. Those are all jobs a woman could do, but it's easier for me to do, than a 120lb girl who is just not mechanically or structurally inclined.

    A girl, can easily clean better or at least just as good as me.

    I hope that does not make me sound like I'm trying to oppress women and keep them in the kitchen or anything. I just feel there are duties that suit each gender better.
    I believe it goes both ways J-Dogg, If I were the one making the money and working and my man wasn't I would expect to come home to a clean house and having things fixed and what not.

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    oh I'll be helping with the cleaning
    You're so sweet ;-)
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    neither of us are neat freaks. But she does most of the cleaning and cooking. I do the laundry.
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    I'm the neat one in the family. Wife won't do laundry until it's piled all over the floor. Pisses me OFF! But the last year I've been living single & apreciate living clean!!
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    My S.O. is the slob.

    I grew up in a house full of independent chicks... so I've always had to pull my weight, and more.

    I cook well, and I like to keep around me clutter-free.

    My chick just likes to drop shit everywhere.

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