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    if your wife did this...

    If your wife found pictures of your ex g/f and she left them on the table for you to see when you got home, wouldnt you think she was trying to start a fight

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    Or that she just wanted to ask why you had them?

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    ok leme re-state I had cleaned out my barracks room, and it was dumped in our spair bedroom with a bunch of trash and other things of small value

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    She's upset/hurt but not trying to start a fight. If you dont want the pictures anymore then destroy them in front of her and let her know how much you love her.

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    Idk, I mean first impression yes, I'd think she was trying to start a fight but I was just saying it MIGHT not have been just to fight. Nobody will ever know a female's intentions completely. What would you have done if the tables were turned?

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    destroy evidence and deny! haha. just get rid of it like you dont care. if you start fighting over it it will probably show her you still have feelings for your ex.

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    I did i just put them in the garbage but had been up for 24 hours had to jump yesterday and I was to tired to put up with it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by powerliftmike View Post
    destroy evidence and deny! haha. just get rid of it like you dont care. if you start fighting over it it will probably show her you still have feelings for your ex.
    sadly enough thats exsactly what happened

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    Quote Originally Posted by Juturna View Post
    Idk, I mean first impression yes, I'd think she was trying to start a fight but I was just saying it MIGHT not have been just to fight. Nobody will ever know a female's intentions completely. What would you have done if the tables were turned?
    How would you know what females are thinking, i thought you were gay???

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    How would you know what females are thinking, i thought you were gay???
    Let's leave the other thread in... the other thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Juturna View Post
    Idk, I mean first impression yes, I'd think she was trying to start a fight but I was just saying it MIGHT not have been just to fight. Nobody will ever know a female's intentions completely. What would you have done if the tables were turned?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Juturna View Post
    Let's leave the other thread in... the other thread.
    Ok but stop sending me those naked pictures of yourself, its gay...

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    Ok but stop sending me those naked pictures of yourself, its gay...

    Hahahaha..

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    whats funny is dsm called you gay

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    oh and it does take one to know one

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    A lot more went into those reactions than finding the pictures. She was hurt for a reason, and you were offensive for a reason but it wasn't because of some inoccent oversite of some pictures you forgot about of someone you used to date.

    really, address the problem not the symptom bro.

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    Quote Originally Posted by higherdesire View Post
    A lot more went into those reactions than finding the pictures. She was hurt for a reason, and you were offensive for a reason but it wasn't because of some inoccent oversite of some pictures you forgot about of someone you used to date.

    really, address the problem not the symptom bro.
    good call

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    she left them on the table because she wanted you to know that she had seen them. Yes, it's a little weird that she'd do that but that's clearly her motive.

    All you can do is cuddle her up and make sure she knows that she's your one and only.

    Women are so insecure it's not even funny. You have to constantly show prove to them that you love..... and STILL love them over and over.

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    This explains it all my friend.



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    was your ex naked in the pictures? cause if she was then your definitely in trouble.

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    hahha thats fukin funny

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    Quote Originally Posted by ray0414 View Post
    was your ex naked in the pictures? cause if she was then your definitely in trouble.
    one was a modle photo.. but she was fully clothed and the other was just her with a family friend on our old boat..I just didnt see what the big deal was

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    post the pics...

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    haha in the garbage now

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    The Big Deal was the wife found pictures that YOU own of another FEMALE that wasn't her...

    They don't like that...

    WIFE or not.. GF or not... Significant Other or not...


    THEY want to feel special, like they are the only ones that MATTER...


    Photos of an EX just make it seem that FEELINGS still exist...


    That's just my opinion ANYWAYS...


    Or like you said.. Maybe she wanted to start a FIGHT.. because we all know how they LOVE to do that... friggen women... lol...

    But you did good throwin' them shitz in the garbage !!

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    Quote Originally Posted by CptAmericaX View Post
    If your wife found pictures of your ex g/f and she left them on the table for you to see when you got home, wouldnt you think she was trying to start a fight
    um of coarse she would be trying to start a fight, she found old pic of your gf???

    what if a husband found pic of an old bf what should the guy do?



    simple answer become a swinger and dont worry about it or just let it go... give and take

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