
Originally Posted by
higherdesire
First of all if the girl said she would be there the next day your rebuttal is, or should be, great I will be tied up some tomorrow so give me your number and I will call when I get freed up and see if you're still around. Showing up to see her is a desperate act and I am sure she saw that as well in other things like writing a letter to her? WTF is that? Dude you do that with someone you like, not someone you want to give you a "blowy". Girls that want to just give you a blowy aren't interested in a fraking love letter from a desperate stalker.
Shoot straight and tell her that you in town for a short time and looking to have a good time and ask if she is too busy to show you around. If she has interest the answer is of course she would be happy to show you around, if she doesn't ask her where the party is at and go there, but dont make her feel uncomfortable, make it polite chatter. Keep it light.
This is a little disturbing for me to even hear. How old r u mate?