Highest and lowest times of your life

[Hazard]

Highest - When I bought my house and got married.....

Lowest - I'm living it. I took a new job that didn't have health insurance benefits because my wife was working in a hospital. I had her add me to her benefits. My wife is currently a pain killer addict, she got fired, failed rehab..... My job is paying for 2 cars, car insurance, electric/heat, cable, a mortgage, homeowners insurance, gas, groceries, and soon health insurance. Everyday with my wife gets harder and harder and i'm not sure how much longer it's going to last.....

*Edit* She doesn't support me working out..... and she must think i'm dumb because she tells me she's off painkillers and I keep finding empty script bottles.....

~Haz~

[stack_it]

Highest - When I bought my house and got married.....

Lowest - I'm living it. I took a new job that didn't have health insurance benefits because my wife was working in a hospital. I had her add me to her benefits. My wife is currently a pain killer addict, she got fired, failed rehab..... My job is paying for 2 cars, car insurance, electric/heat, cable, a mortgage, homeowners insurance, gas, groceries, and soon health insurance. Everyday with my wife gets harder and harder and i'm not sure how much longer it's going to last.....

*Edit* She doesn't support me working out..... and she must think i'm dumb because she tells me she's off painkillers and I keep finding empty script bottles.....

~Haz~

Damn. Hope things start looking up for u haz. They have to get better eventually just hang in there and keep your head up.

[Hazard]

Damn. Hope things start looking up for u haz. They have to get better eventually just hang in there and keep your head up.

I hate quitting..... and it's really hard for me to leave her..... even durring these times but honestly..... i feel like shes working overtime trying to get me to divorce her. Hate to say it but I think i'd be happer without her...... we'll see how it unfolds.....

~Haz~

[J-Dogg]

I hate quitting..... and it's really hard for me to leave her..... even durring these times but honestly..... i feel like shes working overtime trying to get me to divorce her. Hate to say it but I think i'd be happer without her...... we'll see how it unfolds.....

~Haz~

Sorry to hear about all that bro, I've been there, my high school sweet heart was honestly one of the prettiest girls in the school, cheer leader, soccer team, you just wanted to show her off. Very caring, she'd glow when she saw me, just simply excited that I was around.

We dated for 5 years, we lived together for the last 3. I was always overly ambitious, and I carried most the weight, which I did not mind, I made more money than her. I did very well over those years, I purchased investment properties, I owned 5 houses by the time I was 24, started a company that I still own/operate today and do well with it.

About the 5 year mark, she developed a pretty sever and destructive drinking problem. She was never really a drinker, but when she started, it was bad. Lots of bad things happend from the drinking and eventually, I was in your boat. I felt I had to take care of her, what would she do with out me? The drinking/drugs made her depressed, so she would drink more to cope. She went to a councilor, but that's only as good as the effort you are willing to apply.

When people get addicted, they are not the same people, You probably feel like I did. That you had a responsibility to take care of that person, and in turn, we become enablers.

These relationships are HARD to end, because you are not just dealing with your heart break, you are dealing with that person's demise, and falling. But it's out of our control. You can't make her quit pills, you can't give her an ultimatum, she might be able to quit for a little, but it's ALWAYS going to be on the back of your mind...and worse, on the back of hers.

You seem like a really good guy, and because I've been there, I really hope you can get past it. You have to let people fall though, they sink...or they swim, you can't do it for them and you don't have to stand next to the pool to watch.

If I'm assuming correctly, you 2 have no children? If that's true, you have something to be thankful for!

[higherdesire]

Highest - When I bought my house and got married.....

Lowest - I'm living it. I took a new job that didn't have health insurance benefits because my wife was working in a hospital. I had her add me to her benefits. My wife is currently a pain killer addict, she got fired, failed rehab..... My job is paying for 2 cars, car insurance, electric/heat, cable, a mortgage, homeowners insurance, gas, groceries, and soon health insurance. Everyday with my wife gets harder and harder and i'm not sure how much longer it's going to last.....

*Edit* She doesn't support me working out..... and she must think i'm dumb because she tells me she's off painkillers and I keep finding empty script bottles.....

~Haz~

Brother Haz, listen man life is a game of inches. And sometimes we give an inch and they take a mile, you know that saying right? Ok so why do I mention it? It is about setting new boundaries and letting them know that there are some inches we take back. We can refer to it as resistance. You can overcome it together and still love each other and be together. So let's turn it in to your biggest victory. I can walk you through some reliable tactics for reestablishing some of those boundaries if you are ever interested hit me up on PM.

[Hazard]

Brother Haz, listen man life is a game of inches. And sometimes we give an inch and they take a mile, you know that saying right? Ok so why do I mention it? It is about setting new boundaries and letting them know that there are some inches we take back. We can refer to it as resistance. You can overcome it together and still love each other and be together. So let's turn it in to your biggest victory. I can walk you through some reliable tactics for reestablishing some of those boundaries if you are ever interested hit me up on PM.

Thanks man - i appreciate it. I've tried..... we had an intervention style meeting and I told her this was the 3rd and last time I was going to go through this with her. I told her she either completes a rehab program or Im done. She needed to show me some effort.....

I found ut she went to 2 classes and quit..... I've given her so many opportunities and she f*cks them all up...... idunno.... i don't wanna soak this thread with my crap LMAO

thanks man!

~Haz~

[RyanRoss]

Thanks man - i appreciate it. I've tried..... we had an intervention style meeting and I told her this was the 3rd and last time I was going to go through this with her. I told her she either completes a rehab program or Im done. She needed to show me some effort.....

I found ut she went to 2 classes and quit..... I've given her so many opportunities and she f*cks them all up...... idunno.... i don't wanna soak this thread with my crap LMAO

thanks man!

~Haz~

Bro I've riddled the lounge with my court case. You are fine with this thread! lol we're all here for you boss!

[sigman roid]

Bro I've riddled the lounge with my court case. You are fine with this thread! lol we're all here for you boss!

Tell me about it...lol

[Dukkit]

Thanks man - i appreciate it. I've tried..... we had an intervention style meeting and I told her this was the 3rd and last time I was going to go through this with her. I told her she either completes a rehab program or Im done. She needed to show me some effort.....

I found ut she went to 2 classes and quit..... I've given her so many opportunities and she f*cks them all up...... idunno.... i don't wanna soak this thread with my crap LMAO

thanks man!

~Haz~

you know i got nothing but brotherly love for you bro!!

next weekend we are gonna tear up some shit in jersey!!

its on!

ill at least get you out and get your mind off this bull for a night. a looooong night of chaos!!!!

[chicmagnet]

Highest - When I bought my house and got married.....

Lowest - I'm living it. I took a new job that didn't have health insurance benefits because my wife was working in a hospital. I had her add me to her benefits. My wife is currently a pain killer addict, she got fired, failed rehab..... My job is paying for 2 cars, car insurance, electric/heat, cable, a mortgage, homeowners insurance, gas, groceries, and soon health insurance. Everyday with my wife gets harder and harder and i'm not sure how much longer it's going to last.....

*Edit* She doesn't support me working out..... and she must think i'm dumb because she tells me she's off painkillers and I keep finding empty script bottles.....

~Haz~

Sh!T Haz,thats your escape bro, you need to keep that up!