
Originally Posted by
Skyler
I like this.
I study anything I can, and one of the many areas I am fascinated with is the brain. It's amazing how much can be completely explained about behavior, attitude, aggression, social skills, etc once you learn about the brain on an in depth level. So many kids want to talk about how they are mature for their age, or how age is nothing but a number, etc. They want to find some way to convince themselves that they are already at the same level an adult is at. The fact is, the frontal lobe does not fully develop until the early 20's. The frontal lobe is used for judgment and critical thinking. Because the frontal lobe is not fully developed in kids or teens, their mind compensates by using the hypothalamus (if I remember correctly, don't have my notes near me) which is the part of the brain that deals with emotions. This is why teens make such stupid decisions that are usually based in emotion rather than in common sense or facts. Or why teens seem to get so over dramatic about every little thing. Or the suicide rate is highest in teens than in any other age group.
Bottom line is, this is a teen, because he is a teen his frontal lobe is under developed. This means that i could take a wild guess and say that the kid wanted to be bigger and stonger so bad that he let it get the best of him and made the stupid, emotionally driven decision to lift alone in a basement with no spotter.
I am sad for the kid, I wish he didn't have to die, would have been much better for him to have hurt himself and lived to learn a valuable lesson. I feel bad for his family, friends, etc. I am not the "politically correct" type, though. The fact is, it was a stupid decision to make. The fact is, he was 16. The fact is, the kid died. So this means, whether it "sounds nice" or not, what happened was in fact a result of the stupidity of a kid. That's just how it is. Sad, but true.