Not hating at you at all. I don't think you do or need to eat a "set amount" of calories every day, but to eat between a ranger of 1000 calories would be wrong unless your carb cycling or doing a 3 day plan (which I am assuming you are not since you didn't already provide that information). And I'm also skeptical that you can eat upwards of 4500 calories and still stay at 6% bodyfat naturally.
The reason I gave you that guy is because he is the same height and bodyfat as you, and in that pic he was 187 pounds too. So if you don't look like him that would imply your stats are off.
How did you calculate your bodyfat 3 months ago ? This might help you until you get pics up:
http://forums.steroid.com/showthread...ke.&highlight=
In addition, if your in the military and leaving in 7 days is it that you want to cycle when you come home ?
Not trying to be rude or hate on you at all chief, just trying to help get all the details.