Eventually they all try to change you into who they think you should/could be and of course all the = better for THEM. lolOriginally Posted by First Timer 42
Recently mine started some of that's sh*t. Didn't last to long after I told her without any reserve she needed to go find Mr. Right because I am who I am and no amount of nagging is going to do anything but find me packing her bags.
I then proceeded to let her know what she had been slacking on lately. Not how she needed to do more but how she had been doing LESS than originally. I made it clear that it was far from unfair for her to expect ME to do more, improve myself when in fact she was doing less than originally. Got to keep them in line and if they wont then stand your ground and move on because it will only get worse after you get married. Once they realize you have no backbone they will push you until they get bored because no matter how you change, what you do for them or how perfect you become they will eventually leave due to no challenge.
Best thing you can do is tell her straight up she does not respect you so you have no respect for her. She can either become your whore, suck your d*ck at command, bend over then get out or just get out; otherwise she needs to show you the respect you deserve and you will do likewise.
I had one girlfriend who was being a b*tch off and on for a while get upset and tell me (yell at me) she wanted someone who adored her. I told her then she needs to learn how to be adorable and not a b*tch because how she is being treated is a direct reflection of how she is acting. LOL
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