Should I break up with her

[slfmade]

Before you dump her though; do what I said to do in my first post. It could just be that feels she has the upper hand in the relationship and can do whatever the fvck she wants. I don't know how you've been acting, but it sounds like you've been kissing her ass and showering her with gifts this whole time and maybe she's bored. On one hand, that's probably not the type of girl that you want, but on the other maybe if you put your foot down and tell her how things are gonna be...she might see you in a new light and start to respect you a little more for being a man.

All women want a man and too many guys try to be sooooo romantic that they make the mistake of not standing up for themselves and doing whatever the girl wants. After a short while most all women will start to lose respect for the man not to mention get very bored.

[Razor]

Before you dump her though; do what I said to do in my first post. It could just be that feels she has the upper hand in the relationship and can do whatever the fvck she wants. I don't know how you've been acting, but it sounds like you've been kissing her ass and showering her with gifts this whole time and maybe she's bored. On one hand, that's probably not the type of girl that you want, but on the other maybe if you put your foot down and tell her how things are gonna be...she might see you in a new light and start to respect you a little more for being a man.

All women want a man and too many guys try to be sooooo romantic that they make the mistake of not standing up for themselves and doing whatever the girl wants. After a short while most all women will start to lose respect for the man not to mention get very bored.

Whats ****ed up is before I started doing all that romantic shit, she was like we need to have more fun in our relationship...but she does want to go to bars, she is a homebody and always wants to be at home taking care of her dogs. I'm fine with that Ill go out with my friends, but then don't come and complain to me when your bored and want more fun. So i bought her that phone "late christmas gift" and took her out of town. But I will do what you said first and put my foot down.

[BrownGirl]

Whats ****ed up is before I started doing all that romantic shit, she was like we need to have more fun in our relationship...but she does want to go to bars, she is a homebody and always wants to be at home taking care of her dogs. I'm fine with that Ill go out with my friends, but then don't come and complain to me when your bored and want more fun. So i bought her that phone "late christmas gift" and took her out of town. But I will do what you said first and put my foot down.

Keep in mind that her idea of fun may not necessarily be going to bars...If this relationship progresses, try doing other things with her like outdoorsy stuff or something.

[spywizard]

Whats ****ed up is before I started doing all that romantic shit, she was like we need to have more fun in our relationship...but she does want to go to bars, she is a homebody and always wants to be at home taking care of her dogs. I'm fine with that Ill go out with my friends, but then don't come and complain to me when your bored and want more fun. So i bought her that phone "late christmas gift" and took her out of town. But I will do what you said first and put my foot down.

baggage.. she's got way too much of it..
and there are way too many women in the world that are less trouble..

"love needs to be worked at, but love shouldn't be soo much work.. "

get it??

[SexySweetheart]

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[Razor]

hate to be the one to say it, but...5weeks, how often are so seeing her?... like are you exclusive? ...is she dating other guys? ...have you made it clear that your only dating her?
she may be keeping you at a distance delibratly if her feelings were hurt by something you said while she was morning over her dog so early in the relationship...

...and i dont think its fair to hold the amount of money you spend on her/dates as a form of whats expected of her. It was your decidion to spend money, no one forced you too and Im sure your expectations of her were not said to her ~ should she choose to accept you choosing to spend money on her.

alllll girls get bored in relationships that become predictable, if they tell you other wise they are full a crap and just saying what they think will make you happy. Not that its your job to make things fun and different (she should own that too) find out what her idea of fun is maybe and invite her to make plans for you guys to go out.

feel it out/ talk it out / before cashing out

Ok we have been excusive for 5 weeks. Not seeing anyone else.