Should I break up with her

[Hazard]

Nah Man I knew she was not going to be there afterwards, she was in LA with her family.. A simple phone call would have sufficed. Plus I told her I love her, like I have many times before and she skated around the return by saying Im nutz, which she says all the time, but I can tell she does not love me.

oh dear lord.....

I'm starting to think maybe you have been pushing her away..... You know you love her after just 5 weeks? Her not saying it in return is as clear of a sign as you're going to get that she IS NOT ont he same level you are.

~Haz~

[Razor]

dude she is right you are nuts. telling her you love her after 5 weeks? wtf is this grade school? lets be serious here

oh dear lord.....

I'm starting to think maybe you have been pushing her away..... You know you love her after just 5 weeks? Her not saying it in return is as clear of a sign as you're going to get that she IS NOT ont he same level you are.

~Haz~

She told me shes loved me when i told her.

[Hazard]

She told me shes loved me when i told her.

This is her skating around it again..... a proper response from someone that loves you would be "but I do love you....."

~Haz~

[Vettester]

She told me shes loved me when i told her.

Words are just that, words! Her actions told you all you need to know. Don't rationalize this anymore. Take her off of this pedestal that you see her on and move forward.

I had a similar deal way back in high school (all those years ago), where I ended up in the hospital. I dropped an absurd amount of weight in a very short time, and the docs were even speculating leukemia at one point, because nothing else was showing up on the tests. My GF at the time never made any effort to see how I was. It turned out that I had some crazy strain of mono. Also turned out that I got it from her, as she picked it up from some dude while we were dating. It was a no brainer for me at 18, and it would be more than a no brainer in my 40's.