Should I break up with her

[SlimmerMe]

Thanks..well she pissed me off 2 weeks ago. She had to put her dog down. I did not have my truck at the time cause my brother was using it. I offered to take the train up earlier and get out of work to go to the vet with her. She said it was ok and just wanted it to be her and her family. Later on I told her I might not be able to make it cause the last train left and my brother was not back yet with my truck. 5 minutes later he showed up and drove me up there cause we only had 1 car. A week later she tells me she was upset that i say "I might not be able to make it" EVEN though I made it..

This is what you are dealing with. First impressions stick. And by telling her that you "might not be able to make it" stayed with her and she just did not get over it thus took it out on you later.

When someone is down and out and someone they are in love with tells them they might not be able to make it? That is what stayed in her psyche. Not that you actually did make it. But that you came real real close to not making it. We gals know that when you are in love with us you will do anything to figure out how to do something. So this is where the trouble started and she hung onto that and the rest is history.

She felt like you were not there for her in those 5 minutes. So anytime someone feels this, especially a female and that is who we are talking about is it not? Then she felt so let down and that was a long 5 minutes to her while putting her dog down. She probably felt a deep desertion from you and just could not get over it.

This is what you need to ask her. Did that scenario taint her lack of response to you when you needed her? And if so, then it is up to you both to either work it out or move on. It is not a good beginning since neither one of you really trust each other now.

Good luck.

[Hazard]

This is what you are dealing with. First impressions stick. And by telling her that you "might not be able to make it" stayed with her and she just did not get over it thus took it out on you later.

When someone is down and out and someone they are in love with tells them they might not be able to make it? That is what stayed in her psyche. Not that you actually did make it. But that you came real real close to not making it. We gals know that when you are in love with us you will do anything to figure out how to do something. So this is where the trouble started and she hung onto that and the rest is history. The trouble started when he said "I love you"

She felt like you were not there for her in those 5 minutes. So anytime someone feels this, especially a female and that is who we are talking about is it not? Then she felt so let down and that was a long 5 minutes to her while putting her dog down. She probably felt a deep desertion from you and just could not get over it.

Well i'm sorry but thats fvckin nuts..... Not only do I NOT understand that if thats truely the way women think..... but I have no desire to understand it. I like to think logically..... This is just outrageous and to deal with that shit is just downright god awful. There are plenty of women out there that wouldn't have held what he said over his head. If anything.... he DID do whatever he could in order to be there for her. HE MADE IT THERE......

IMO if this isn't good enough for her then she needs a reality check. She can wit the next 25 years looking for prince charming for all I'd care. She'll see the light one day..... when the guy she's with doesn't do shit for her. She'll think of you everytime she uses that Iphone..... then again..... probably not.
This is what you need to ask her. Did that scenario taint her lack of response to you when you needed her? And if so, then it is up to you both to either work it out or move on. It is not a good beginning since neither one of you really trust each other now.

Good luck.

^^^^ In bold.....

~Haz~

[gixxerboy1]

^^^^ In bold.....

~Haz~

i agree. If that is that immature to hold that over him. Then she isnt worth being with. That is childish.