i was up front with my wife, surprisingly she was ok with it....she was already used to me working out alot and she knew i really wanted to do it so she supprted me. she likes it now, she loves when im on and my sex drive is through the roof, not to mention she kinda likes the muscles too. her only complaint is the money, but i remind her of her $150 hair cut and color she gets all the time then bang her like a porn star and she's cool!!! she even pins my glutes for me.