Quote Originally Posted by Iamdetermined View Post
she probably does feel embarrassed so dont let it get to you, help her get out of her comfort zone by taking things slowly .. if she didn't like you she wouldn't even spend time with you so
and sometimes it can take along time for you to get her to where you want her to go. if you push, eventually she will push back. better to be gentle and slow with your approach. and talking about it in a positive way outside the bedroom can be a postive thing.

but..... there is this to consider. not every gal will end up where you want her to be. after a few years, frustration can build up, and poison a relationship. at some point, you will have to assess the relationship and make a decision. Ultimately, you cannot change people. If they are truly not interested in sex, or have a very low libido for no apparent reason, then it sounds like you have a basic compatibility issue. But don't be hasty in your decisioning. give it some time, be patient, and be gentle.