Quote Originally Posted by jasc View Post
She sounds like a great girl man.. but in the end it's up to you and where you see yourself in a few years... As you said, it's rare to find a good girl and if you can see yourself with her for the long haul don't fvck it up for some bar flys. I dunno how old you are, so that plays a big role in it too, but just think to yourself.. If you cheat with one of these girls, can you stand to see your gf walk out the door n start fvckin other dudes?

If you wanna stay with your girl, but like hangin with the boys, don't give these other broads the time of day. If you start to flirt it's a slippery slope. One thing leads to another and eventually you'll slip up. I can relate to your situation completely. I have a great girl, been together 3 yrs and she also bartends 1-2 nights to pay off student debt. My boys all like to go out so I go sometimes, but as soon as a girl approaches I blow em off before they can begin to speak. Sure I come across as a total asshole, but I love my girl and won't disrespect her by even flirting.

The choice is yours my friend, but think long-term
i was talking to my buddy the other day and we were talking about when the guy cheats and the woman finds out and they stay together, you can guarantee she will cheat. Prbly some nite when she is out with her gfs and drinking and starts thinking what an asshole you are. Well at least thats whats happened to me and him in the past. As i am older i dont wanna hurt someone else so i keep it in m pants.