What does your "significant other" think about your use?

[Until_It_Sleeps]

I thought of posting this in the women's section but this one gets a lot more results, of course...

So, assuming your wife/gf/partner does not use, what does she think of your using AAS? Or does she not know?

My man loves the look but worries about my health. I think he'd love it if I quit, but it was the female bodybuilder look that attracted him in the first place.

[t-dogg]

Well im single so this isnt a issue. Guess my key is to find someone who understands it.

[kronik420]

Well im single so this isnt a issue. Guess my key is to find someone who understands it.

same, i wouldn't get into a serious relationship tho without 1st discussing my intended/current use of AAS (gonna start my 1st cycle next year)

i guess at the end of the day, its a personal decision, what's more important to you, how it will affect your relationships, etc...

[Until_It_Sleeps]

I think men have it easier if their partner is clueless; just leave a huge jug of protein and another of creatine out and she'll think that's all you do.

[kronik420]

I think men have it easier if their partner is clueless; just leave a huge jug of protein and another of creatine out and she'll think that's all you do.

until she finds the stash, lol...

[Tasmaniac]

My wife has been supportive. In fact, she injects me when I am on sus. She's not over the moon about it but supports me...
That's the advantage when you marry an Asian. They don't bitch at you all the time!

[Firepal]

alot of my buddies use AAS and their GF thinks they gained 20 LBs in a couple months cuz they workout so hard. (even though half of them get drunk every weekend and have horrible diets). I told my GF and at first she didint really care but now she uses it against me in arguments -,- when she does somthing i dont like she says well ur doing steriods so u do things i dont want too. aff

[Until_It_Sleeps]

I hear from others that Asians turn into bitches after they get American men to marry them...maybe not true?

[kronik420]

IMO, the more educated your partner is about AAS, the more likely they would be to accept your decision to use AAS...

its just that too many people are brainwashed by the media, and think that if you take AAS, your gonna go all roid rage and kill everyone and yourself.... lol.

[Until_It_Sleeps]

My guy still goes on about friends of his who supposedly died from AAS, but then later said they were using cocaine. So why does he automatically assume it's the steroids?!

[kronik420]

My guy still goes on about friends of his who supposedly died from AAS, but then later said they were using cocaine. So why does he automatically assume it's the steroids?!

the media, plus he sounds like hes just uneducated about AAS.

have you tried explaining what it is that you use, and the pros and cons of it, side effects, etc..

[Tasmaniac]

I hear from others that Asians turn into bitches after they get American men to marry them...maybe not true?

It can be true. It depends on the type of girl. Growing up in Aus., I thought I'd never get married after watching how the women act here. Asian girls generally look after their man a lot better and don't bitch at you. Not to mention their hot bodies which they keep even after having kids

[Bulkn]

same, i wouldn't get into a serious relationship tho without 1st discussing my intended/current use of AAS (gonna start my 1st cycle next year)

i guess at the end of the day, its a personal decision, what's more important to you, how it will affect your relationships, etc...

This i what i did. She appreciates me being honest with her and said she will support me.

[SportbikerKid]

Unless my significant other was my finance/wife, I would not see any reason to tell them about steroid use

[spywizard]

we just refer to them all as supplements..

she's done my injections in the past, but not anymore.. bothered her too much..

[ppwc1985]

Yes I'm married to Asian too, she doesn't mind as long as I am doing it safely. And as far as turning into bitches maybe American Asians. Mine is Filipino and best woman I ever found, takes good care of me. I think no matter where they from they still a woman, but you treat them right they will treat you right no matter what kind race they are.

[ironbeck]

My wife supports me and injects me as well, she loves the extra bang sessions, and well AAS does not have any negative effects on my mood so its never an issue.

[freddy1418]

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[Atomini]

Every significant other i've had has known about my AAS use, and I made sure they knew. Nearly all of them didn't have a problem with it when explained the truth and proper logic and reasoning behind them. And if any girl doesn't like the fact that I use AAS, she can go take a hike. I don't care how beautiful, sexy, smart, etc. the girl is, NOBODY gets in the way of my training.

[Tron3219]

My wife lets me do as I please as long as I'm honest with her. She loved me ravaging her while on test lol but didn't particularly care for the first couple weeks of pct lol

[Lunk1]

The first time i cycled she had no before hand knowledge. She had seen me take loads of PH's over the years and never said Boo! I got more first cycle from an overseas supplier and when they arrived I hid then for a cpl weeks. Not intentionally to decieve her but more out of fear. I pulled them out of hiding one day to admire them and showed her. Now I know this my be difficult for some of you to believe , but she did as she does sooo often, shook her head and walked away. It's been on like Donkey Kong ever since!

We have discussed it many times just for conversation purposes. She probably has more knowledge of ester weights and compounds and their side effects than most tards asking questions on here (sorry I meant newbs). She accepts that this is most likely a life long endeavor and her only 2 concerns have been the arguments caused by some of the tren mental sides (really much better with the inclusion of an AI, damn estrogen) and she has expressed concern that she is worried that the gear is something OTHER than what it's supposed to be and could hurt me!

Perhaps it's the benifit of a long term relationship, you just learn to deal with, accept and even support things the other person chooses to do. It helps that she is into staying healthy, eating right and gym time!

Word to the wise...tell your S/O the truth! Better to hear it from you that to CATCH you. Have an open honest discussion about your choice. At the end of the day it is YOUR choice! If your S/O finds out the hard way...it's a whole nother can of worms and now your fighting a lie while trying to explain your choices...good luck with that!

[adam1805]

Interesting topic. I've been with my current girlfriend for about 4 mos now, and as I prep for my second cycle since last January, I'm concerned about what will happen. I told her i was ordering "some supplements from a buddy with good connections," just to feel her out. She snapped back with "i hope you're not doing anything illegal or dangerous." Apparently she dated a guy years ago who freaked out on her with what she perceived as roid rage. Is it bad that i feel more committed to my fitness and physique goals? lol

[Honkey_Kong]

One of the concerns my girlfriend has (and so do I), which we don't fight about, but we've been discussing quite a bit is due to more or less my to TRT treatment is making it difficult for us while we're trying to have a baby. Most of you younger guys might not think this is a concern to you, but when you get older and settled down, you're probably going to want a family. And more importantly, SHE is going to want a baby (most likely more than you want to have one).

[Chx beach 79]

My wife is cool! She will even throw darts at me if I need her too!!! Lol... As long as I'm responsible and I don't get aggressive, she supports me... BTW I never get aggressive from Test, is that normal?

[austinite]

Don't have one now. But when I did, it was frowned upon. So I stopped for the sake of the relationship. Then one day I come home and find her "smoking" on the balcony. She was removed from the premises before end of day.

[Lunk1]

My wife is cool! She will even throw darts at me if I need her too!!! Lol... As long as I'm responsible and I don't get aggressive, she supports me... BTW I never get aggressive from Test, is that normal?

Steroids don't cause aggression...ppl do!

[austinite]

^^ I beg to differ!! Lead to, maybe?

But aggression is not a bad thing anyway. Too many people reference it as "violence". 2 different things.

[Lunk1]

^^ I beg to differ!! Lead to, maybe?

But aggression is not a bad thing anyway. Too many people reference it as "violence". 2 different things.

Ok...splitting hairs! Yes more aggression but NOT violence! NOT "rage"!

[Until_It_Sleeps]

My guy is cool with the sides; he actually likes women with extra body hair! Sucks because I'd much rather get rid of it but I guess it can be nice to be a little low-maintenance. He just seems to think I can maintain my look by lifting heavy, and I seriously doubt that. When I was natural I had a more muscular look than most women but nothing like now.

I'm well past the point of being able to claim I don't use, if I should ever find myself seeking a new relationship. I did have one guy who took test and would share with me but then he wished he hadn't...said he couldn't keep up with me. We used to pin each other but that was sort of weird.

[Lunk1]

My guy is cool with the sides; he actually likes women with extra body hair! Sucks because I'd much rather get rid of it but I guess it can be nice to be a little low-maintenance. He just seems to think I can maintain my look by lifting heavy, and I seriously doubt that. When I was natural I had a more muscular look than most women but nothing like now.

I'm well past the point of being able to claim I don't use, if I should ever find myself seeking a new relationship. I did have one guy who took test and would share with me but then he wished he hadn't...said he couldn't keep up with me. We used to pin each other but that was sort of weird.

More body hair...no thanks. None of us should have a single hair other than on our heads

Pinning each other sound like S&M foreplay lol

[ironbeck]

My guy is cool with the sides; he actually likes women with extra body hair! Sucks because I'd much rather get rid of it but I guess it can be nice to be a little low-maintenance. He just seems to think I can maintain my look by lifting heavy, and I seriously doubt that. When I was natural I had a more muscular look than most women but nothing like now.

I'm well past the point of being able to claim I don't use, if I should ever find myself seeking a new relationship. I did have one guy who took test and would share with me but then he wished he hadn't...said he couldn't keep up with me. We used to pin each other but that was sort of weird.

Yea I could see where that would be a little awkward.

[Until_It_Sleeps]

I've got that line of hair on my stomach and said I was going to get it lasered off and he said absolutely not, he loves it. He doesn't even want me shaving my legs, but I drew the line there...I wear shorts in the gym.

[jpowell]

I thought of posting this in the women's section but this one gets a lot more results, of course...

So, assuming your wife/gf/partner does not use, what does she think of your using AAS? Or does she not know?

My man loves the look but worries about my health. I think he'd love it if I quit, but it was the female bodybuilder look that attracted him in the first place.

usually its the other way around--
i do know quite a few women who use gear--and their guys are ok with it.
as for me, personally i wodnt mind--i just cant have my girl getting bigger than me--turn off.

[sgt2jay]

I did my first cycle last spring and started gh a couple years ago. With both I have kept my wife informed with what I believed to be the pros ans cons. She had many questions but in the end as long as kept here informed she backed me the whole way.

This has made it easier not only with not having to hide anything in the house but she helped my realize I get a bit arguementative and a bit more frustrated on a cycle. She reminds me of that if she shes it starting to happen. Make my life easier. Plus I have never hidden anything from here not going to start now

[auswest]

I don't tell and she doesn't ask.. She did tell me to clean up after myself when I left a wrapper on the floor, nothing more was said.

[jpowell]

I don't tell and she doesn't ask...

not talking about homosexuality in the military.

[songdog]

My wife knows and supports me.

[senorrebo]

Mine is cool as long as it's only test. Actually, she's more than cool with the libido boost.

[MuscleInk]

My wife is okay with it most of the time. She actually does my glute injections for me. Her only real complaint is that she just wants me to stay healthy and not take it too far to a point where my health is jeopardized over my body building goals.

[Lunk1]

My wife is okay with it most of the time. She actually does me in my glutes. Her only real complaint is that she just wants me to stay healthy and not take it too far to a point where my health is jeopardized over my body building goals.

Thats called pegging and has nothing to do with AAS use