Quote Originally Posted by dan68131 View Post
That's what I mean- a lot of "unknowns" are simply due to what you see in porn. Then you try it at home and you end up with a women whom wants to kill you in your sleep because her butthole is bleeding with pain that she will never forget. Thus- all the questions. Porn makes it seem easy to do- its not. They also do stuff in porn like ass to mouth which is almost never gonna happen at home. I think 95% of the intrigue/turn on with butt sex is simply that its forbidden or doesn't happen often. In all reality- if its warm, wet, and tight... does it matter which hole it is? BUT... trying to navigate the pooper after you see all those outside influences on what is possible.... that's the hard part. Hell... I honestly didn't know what to do if I was about to nut because its not "normal" sex. I know I don't want to disrespect my girl or hurt her.... so you're left guessing.
I really don't think there's ATM going on, but rather film splits where they stop and start filming making it look that way. To each their own though but it's a great way to pick up the alphabet soup of Hep and E-Coli. As far as not knowing where to release, well your already in there so let er rip. And as far as the disrespect of your mate, well that's where both parties are willing to try it out and are on the same page so there's no misunderstanding. And just take your cue from her. If she is struggling with intense pain then stop by all means. No means no and stop means stop. As long as you follow those guidelines you should be fine and not end up looking the power madman trying to blow out her back door.