Quote Originally Posted by >Good Luck< View Post
Your gut feeling is wrong. I've been nothing but loyal and the only problems we have had has been with my utter need for complete honesty and communication. I've always felt honesty is the single most important thing for a successful relationship and therefore have always exercised honesty in it raw form. I don't sugar coat anything and i tell it how it is. I also expect the same in return. I've had years in our relationship where we were on the rocks due to broken trust by her, and you may think I'm being arrogant, but it has never been me. We've come close to splitting up for other reasons and other women or men have never been a thought for either. I appreciate your view, as you are a woman and all men have no idea about women, and understand nothing- however you could not be further from the truth. I spent 10 days in mexico with my friend and god as my witness, I remained faithful. I've spent countless nights babysitting friends and driving them to strip clubs, bachelor parties and other risky places, and never had a thought of betraying the trust of my wife, and mother of my 3 daughters. Having daughters has made me EVEN MORE of a one woman man because I believe they will see how
I treat my wife and understand that is how a woman should be treated. If there is anything that may worry her, it's my family as my old man is always in some trouble, divorcing, marrying and generally whoring around spoiling my family name. People see some characteristics of my father in me and assume I will be like him. Not the case, however we do share DNA and he did make me so there will be some serious resemblances.

At the end of the day, i know this will pass. Part of me is offended that she would feel i would betray her in any way, considering my sincere dedication to her in every instance- and part of me is mad at myself for actually putting myself in such a situation on the internet of all places. I've expressed my feelings and gave my apologies, and now all I can do is wait

I wish it was a gym day so I could blow off some steam. I suppose I'll just go binge eat lol
Um there's a reason why I said what I said but I'm not one for causing problems so ill keep my thoughts to myself on this one as for what you just wrote it was way too long to read so I stopped early on. All in all no offense I hope all goes well and gets better. Sorry about the situation.