Well they say you cant take it with you so she is just making sure there is nothing left behind. lol

I agree, it's their own damn fault. I know a lot of us do the same thing on a smaller scale; oweing bills, credit cards and over extending credit but either way you have to learn to live within your means.

I have always tried to live by the concept to owe nothing. Pay cash for cars or at least pay them off ASAP. Pay off credit cards 100% each month and pay extra on the mortgage. It's worked good for the most part until I got married the 1st time and ended up with about 50K in debt until about 2 years ago where I finally got back to having all my cards paid off 100% and only owe one auto loan. I think I have 15+ titles for cars, trailers and toys.

Even if I had 50m I dont see a reason to own a 15 bedroom house. lol Keep everything within reason and save some for a rainy day/month and you will be fine.